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Im So Confused!!!!!!

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture
on Jan 11, 2012 - 12:57PM

We all say that we love Tremaine and I do, I love him more than I think I should! Lol, but a lot of fans were upset around the holidays because Tremaine was seen with Lauren or whoever else. I understand this to a degree. I know that we all fantasize about Trey being our man and some of us probably even feel that he is, and I understand that, to each its own, Im not here to judge anybody. But in reality Tremaine has a life of his own outside of being Trey Songz, he deserves to be happy and to be in a relationship with a woman who makes him happy. If he is in a relationship doesnt mean that they will be together forever.

We say we love him and if thats true then we need to act like it! Our main goal as Angels and Team Songz is to want Tremaine to be happy! Even if it is a relationship or marriage and children. Yes it hurts to a degree, but we also have to be realistic at the same time. Im not saying this to hurt anyones feelings, but I am saying this because it truly hurt me to see you guys upset like that. We have to stop and think first that, if we really love Tremaine the way we say we do then we should want him to be happy!

At one time I heard that he said that he wouldnt get in a relationship because he didnt wanna upset his fans. Now I dont know how true this is, but when I was told this it really hurt my heart because I dont want him feeling like that. Because even though we love him to death, we cant keep him warm at night, we cant make love to him when he or we feel like it. I know we all wish that we could do those things to and for him, lol, but we cant! I dont know if they had pictures or what not but I wont believe anything I hear until I hear it from Tremaine Aldon Neversons lips! Anything else is a rumor and I dont believe it, its may be sum truth to it, but its just a rumor! Even Tremaine has said they are just rumors! My mother has always told me BELIEVE NONE OF WHAT YOU HEAR AND ONLY HALF OF WHAT YOU SEE!

I love all of my Angels sis/bro and Team Songz!!!! And I just dont wanna see anyone upset, because it upsets me to see people in distress. Does that make any sense?

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JesusIsMySavior's picture

Yeah it's definitely not all his angels/fans but I am aware that some have done some manipulative/conniving things to get near him.

lisaleigh30's picture

I had to delete my other comment and write a little clearer. I believe that some Angels have done manipulative and coniving things to get near Tremaine and his crew but I'm not saying that all Angels do this.
I personally want him and I fell I can make him extremely happy but if he doesn't fell the same way about me or any woman whether a fan or otherwise, what a woman feels doesn't matter if he doesn't feel the same!

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

@realazzchelle this is a subject becuz I was concerned n troubled by the way sum fans/Angels reacted to the rumors of him bein wit Lauren London. I really had to counsel sum fans/Angels n after I thought about it I thought it was truely disturbing. I think it ridiculous that as much as sum fans/Angels say they love Trey that the don't want to see him in a happy n lovin relationship. I know that Tremaine will do whatever he wants when he gets good n ready. I want him to be happy! I don't care if he is Lauren or sum random chick, as long as he is happy, I'm happy. N its crazy the way fans/Angels go around harrassing Helen jus cuz she was wit Trey. That ish is crazy! So, with all that bein said, I put it up bcuz I was cocerned. Its not about whether or not he is in a relationship, but the reaction the fans/Angels have, if he is or when he does get in a relationship.

Trey's P.Y.T.'s picture

can't believe this is even a subject ...when tremaine is ready he will have a relationship regardless of what's being said here...smh he loves us but we do not have anything to do with or affect his personal life ...he has a very strong mind of his own

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

Tryin to get to Trey with lies n deception certainly is not the way to go. N he will find out because what's done in the dark will come to the light. If u truly love Trey why would u even want to deceive him but then again there r those women/people who will do whatever to get what they want. ITS WRONG PEOPLE JUST WRONG!!!!!

JesusIsMySavior's picture

I agree trying to get to Trey through deception isn't a good idea.

TreysNewestAngel1's picture

Trey is a very Handsome andTalented artist that most young and some older women would love to have in their life. I feel like right now he's at a point in his life where he still loves his music and loves to perform but wants that special someone that he can come home too when he has his down time. (everyone wants that) It doesn't matter to me one way or the other if he has a gf, engaged, or married. That's his life! All I can and will do is continue to support him and listen to his music and travel to his concerts. I love you Trey Songz!

@Jemail's picture

I strongly believes he wants to have a relationship but some delusional fans won't let it happen. I pray it happens soon in fact I hate the fact that he has no gal friend he's at that age where he needs one. I do also think that if He has a gal it's gonna be private b'se of the above factor which ain't good coz he will end up being unhappy and in unstable relationships

Authentic Angel's picture

You said it best!!! I agree with you, I don't judge anyone but reality and truth is what matters. Im here in Houston TX trying to come up with a way to do something for Trey's Angels just out of appreciation of Him. Trey does his job very well, as an entertainer, but Trey Songz isn't an entertainer 24/7, He also knows life as being,Tramine Aldon Neverson We have to love adore and appreciate him for the Spirit that he is not for the entertainer Trey.....GOD Bless!!!

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@Numba1Hon:

I see. I agree that not letting fans know everything is a good thing. You have to have some element of mystery. You’re right fame can be overwhelming.

1SocialBFly TimelessAngel's picture

I LOVE TREY BECAUSE OF THE HUMBLE INDIVIDUAL THAT HE IS... ALSO IM AN AVID LOVER OF HIS MUSIC....THEREFORE WHETHER OR NOT HES IN A RELATIONSHIP ISNT MY CONCERN.....HOWEVER AS LONG AS HE IS HAPPY THATS ALL THAT MATTERS....HE DEFINITELY DESERVES SOMEONE THAT CARES AND LOVES HIM FOR THE PERSON HE IS AND NOT JUST BECAUSE HES AN ENTERTAINER.....WHEN HE FINDS THAT ONE IT WONT STOP ME FROM LOVING NOR SUPPORTING HIM....LOVIE YOU TREY...MUAH?

iRepTreyAllDay's picture

i 100% agree with you because its not fair,Trey deserves to be loved because he works so hard. im so glad you posted this because at times i feel this way. Trey deserves to be happy plus he always says he wants kids in his future. And to be honest when he does find the one woman that won his heart im going to be happy for him and pray the best for them both. Trey always shows us that he loves us,either on ustream on twitter at his concerts or in person. Either your a Trey's Angel or not. Trey's mentioned that Tremaine has to take the backseat to everything and that Trey Songz gets the lime light so time for Tremaine to shine

SheLovesTrey_X3's picture

Well Put!!!!!! I wish the delusional ones would get a grip .

Numba1Hon's picture

@JIMS
I figured you knew more, but I added all of that for the benefit of some people reading the board that might not know the history. The discussion may have misled them to believe some things started with USTREAM. It appears bringing fans into Trey's life was a marketing strategy from the very beginning. I love the fact that we had the opportunity. Of course I agree with him he should keep some things private and not let fans in 100%. Now I think he is a lot more reluctant about letting fans in period probably because of the visciousness of some fans and the media. I guess all that fame becomes overwhelming.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@Numba1Hon: I didn't mean to give an impression that it started with his Ustreams. I just stated I didn't feel like I was being let into his personal when it came to the Ustreams. Though I'm not a fan from the beginning I do know about the TSMB and his mom and Helen going on the board talking to his fans. I also saw some of the videos Helen posted. I saw When I was 17 also. :)

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@TreysOneLove
Well I agree that it was good that he let fans in and I believe he should not let a few overzealous fans stop him from continuing to do so because he has a part in getting them there. So maybe he can help get them out. I think he should come back up on USTREAM and Twitter especially if he has time. A large part of what got him where he is at is due to his interaction with the fans. I think what is also keeping him off is the visciousness of the media. The lies, the invasion of privacy and the visciousness is greater the bigger he gets. I wouldn't be surprised if his legal counsel or others advised him to cool it.

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

@NUMBA1HON I was sayin at this point it doesnt matter when or how, but that he let his fans in. N hell if I had seen all that I'd probably be krazy too! Lol no not really tho! But its so amazing that these ladies have lost their grip on reality when it comes to Trey.

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@TreySongzLove

Well no disrespect either but it appeared both you and JIMS thought that it started with USTREAM so I thought I would spread some knowledge. I think history and knowledge is always important. When he was more active on USTREAM he would probably have said the same thing you did about showing his fans they are important to him, but I could also see him saying "I ain't gone lie though, the money is good too. In other words altruism was not the sole reason for him drawing his fans in. The things I am talking about have nothing to do with his giving back to the fans. It is about how he drew them in. The music industry is a business. If you can't make the money, you are out regardless of how talented you are and how much work you put in or how much you love your fans. You need fans that buy your records, go to your concerts, buy your msde. and promote you and vote for you, etc. You need a solid, loyal fan base that is down for you whatever and wherever. I don't think he intended any fans to be overly obsessed either. That would be stupid and he is not that.

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

@NUMBA1HON No disrespect, but @ this point it doesnt really matter when n how he let fans in, except that he did. I dont think he was lookin for sum of his fans to be so obsessed. Trey did that because he wanted to let his fans in n let them know they were important to him n he was different from the rest. Idk as far as he is concerned but it kinda back fired.

Numba1Hon's picture

@JIMS
Letting fans into his life started long before USTREAM or Twitter and even before TSMB. The fans were introduced into his life from the beginning. When Trey first started out, there was a promotional video showing Trey and his family in VA. You learned a little about his family life including his father. You got to see Trey, his mother and his grandmother Rose, and I think the making of the Gotta Make It video. During the TSMB era, he admitted he had a girlfriend, Helen. She got to know some of the TSMB members and she and Trey came on the message board sometimes. She and Trey would also share videos and pictures of their time together on Myspace and/or YouTube. You also saw pictures of Helen with his mother even at award shows. There is an MTV show called My Block where you actually saw Trey in his hood with his homies, and the address where he lived in Petersburg. His mother also had a segment of the TSMB board where she revealed questions about Trey to the fans. His mother was on BET one mother’s day show where Trey praised and serenaded her and then sang Wonder Woman. Trey was also on a Segment of “When I Was 17”. Some of the TSMB members actually attended social functions with Trey. They even had a pajama party. So there are many ways that fans were let into his life long before USTREAM. A lot was known about him before My Moment.

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@TreysOneLove
Long before USTREAM Trey was encouraging the “boyfriend in your head” phenomena. He knew how females gravitated towards him and he used this ability to bring in the fan base as Essence711 said. He probably just did not anticipate some of the outcome. He always had this magnetism with his singing ability, golden voice, good looks, fashion sense and style, bad boy swag, raw sex appeal, naughtiness, sensuality, sensitivity, and flirtatiousness and that irresistible smile, the penetrating eyes, sexy voice, the intimate sweet talk, and physical touching and in-person humbleness. Then there are the lucky ones that get to meet him and get the tight hugs and girlfriend and boyfriend pictures. Then add the fact that his fans are endeared to him more because they know a lot about him, including his background and family life and his relationship and career struggles (or his journey). At some point it’s Bingo. Don’t forget his music is primarily directed at females and what we would like for ourselves--especially the music on the studio albums and the Anticipation mixtapes. Then Lemmeholdatbeat I and II and most covers and features add to his bad boy swag--that attractive confidence bordering on arrogance. Even his stage performances bring a hope of getting next to him or doing so vicariously. This is why many Trey fans are so addicted and fantasize about him as their boyfriend, and as we can see, a few are out of touch with reality or just want to be downright mean and spiteful. What frightens me is you may be right. Some may be in distress. I hope this is not really the case.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@Ms. Yuup:

I agree it is crazy to stop liking someone because they are dating someone. That’s just life. I think Trey having a special lady would kill a lot of our fantasies but we will be okay in the end. :)

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@JesusIsMySavior I get what you are saying! And you are right. I just don't get being disrespectful and saying if Trey dates someone I am going to stop listening to his music etc. That is crazy! I heard people say that stuff. And to talk bad about a female that he is seen with is beyond crazy! Seen that to! Trey has a right to be happy! The only thing that Trey having a girlfriend would do is kill my fantasies! I am not about to hate Trey or the woman he is with! That is just me!

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@Essence711: I love Trey too I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t. :) But hopefully I have a healthy love and not a crazy one. LOL Trey does deserve to be happy. When it comes to hearing about things pertaining to Trey’s life you can only handle but so much.

I pray Trey continues to have a very successful career as well. I’m pretty sure I’ll be very old still support Trey as well.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@TREYZONELOVE: Oh okay. LOL :)

Essence711's picture

I've said this a lot of times on here, twitter and everywhere else. I LOVE TREY SONGZ!! lol. I'm not screaming, just over emphasizing just like any other obsessed fan would do. Though, I'm not delusional. I have a strong grip on reality and I do realize that Trey is a real person and he has all of the rights as any other human walking on this earth. He's allowed to have a relationship. He deserves to be happy. I'm happy for him in whatever he does with his life. I stopped following all of the craze pertaining to his personal life because it really got to be too much for me to be so concerned with who he's dating or sleeping with or whatever. I'd prefer not to know. I'll accept it if he ever goes public with his relationship status, but after hearing about it the first time, I think I'll just ignore whatever else is said about it. I think that any real confirmation would devastate me because I did buy into the whole "boyfriend in my head" business. And yes, I do believe that that whole thing was started intentionally. Not because Trey was trying to play with our heads, but because he was trying to target a certain fan base, and build from that. That's just my opinion.
I don't think that Trey should lie about his personal life just to keep us happy. I'm going to continue to love him anyway. I wish I could say that I love him on a more personal level, but I don't even know him. What if I did know him, and he didn't love me back? Then I'd still be where I am now, so, I just go on with my life and I pray that God continues to bless his.
I want him to be happy and continue to give us the parts of him that he's willing to give, and I'm going to enjoy that. I hope Trey has longevity in his career just like The Greats that came before him. I still want to be going to his concerts when my kids are old enough to tell me that Trey is 'old skool'. Mind you, I'm a cougar now, so imagine how old I'll be then! lol.
No matter his status, he's still mine in The Stalker Diaries. :)

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

@JIMS yes that one! I didnt mean he woke up ON ustream but he woke n got on ustream. Lol my bad!

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@TREYZONELOVE: I'll be sure to set some time out to check them out. :) I never heard about the one where he woke up on Ustream. Is that the one where he was brushing his teeth and showering?

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

@JIMS Yes u gotta check out his old ustreams. I love his old ustreams, i use to watch every night before bed! I love the one when he woke up n streamed. I dont think Ive watched all of them but the majority!

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@TREYZONELOVE: Yeah I definitely don't think he intended for some of his fans to be obsessed. I haven't taken the time out to view his older Ustreams I need to check them out. His Ustreams are enjoyable. :) My mother reminded me recently it wouldn't matter who Trey is with you will be fan for years. Once I love an artists I'm a fan for life.

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