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  • Fan STRESS!!!
    November 01, 2010

    MOST of us on this site and MILLION others around the world are OBVIOUSLY
    fans of TREY SONGZ>>>>

    I am just so annoyed at the fact that people call theireelves "Teasing" or "Talking Sh_t" about it...

    People constantly telling me thats its "NOT NORMAL", I'm A "STALKER", I will never see or talk to him. etc the whole nine

    Like Even my BOYFRIEND be mad.....

    I feel as though at times I have to HIDE the fact that I love TREY SONGZ....

    LIKE WTF!!! I was just wondering if this happens to any of you, and how do you deal with it??????

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HIs-LastTime's picture
on Nov 1, 2010 - 05:02PM

MOST of us on this site and MILLION others around the world are OBVIOUSLY
fans of TREY SONGZ>>>>

I am just so annoyed at the fact that people call theireelves "Teasing" or "Talking Sh_t" about it...

People constantly telling me thats its "NOT NORMAL", I'm A "STALKER", I will never see or talk to him. etc the whole nine

Like Even my BOYFRIEND be mad.....

I feel as though at times I have to HIDE the fact that I love TREY SONGZ....

LIKE WTF!!! I was just wondering if this happens to any of you, and how do you deal with it??????

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ladyt1980's picture

it happens 2 me more than i like, every1 knows im a trey songz fan thatno1 wants 2 talk 2 me cus all i talk bout is trey. i dont think i can go 5 seconds w/out mentioning his name. my hairdresser told methat if she evrs sees tre she's gong 2 ask him wat he has done 2 me. my mom wont even call me much anymore. i dont think its being a stalker or obsessive, i think we just care bout him and want 2 know wats going on w/ him. he makes us apart of his live and we make him apart of ours, whether we have met him or not. u dont find many artists these days that luv their fans that much, so for me any1 who doesnt want 2 hear bout tremaine neverson, dont tlk 2 me. i have alot of luv for him, his music, and his drive.

charity24's picture

Yeah it happens to me all the time I have seen him 4 times this year and I am going 2 the OMG tour to I have posters and pics of him on my wall I even had him on my birthday cake that I brought myself and I turned 25 I have been told that I am a stalker and that I am wasteing my time and money because I will never meet him and he doesnt even know who I am and I have been told that I am to old to be so in love wit him And I need to stop supporting him and spending all my money on him because he doesnt even know I am alive Well what I tell those people is dont worry about what I do with my money and I dont care if they understand how I feel or why I feel the way I do about TREY I will support him and Love him untill the day I die if I want to I could really care less what people think of me Its my life and my money But yes I feel you because I hear it all the time esp when I said I was going to the OMG tour my friend was like no dont go havent you seen him enough 4 times isnt enough and i was like no its not she even went as far as to tell me she would stop being my friend if I go I just laughed I am going there was never a question about that just how I was gonna pay for it but thankfuly I worked it out and will be getin my ticket this weekend My advice to you is not to listen to them and if they get on your back about it just simply say you dont understand and probale never will and leave it like that My mom was just saying I dont understand why yall spend all yall money on him he doesnt even know your alive and he doesnt do anything for you its a wate of money And I told her thats not true he does more for me then I can even explain seeing him in concert gives me so much joy I can hardly explain it but I wont waste my time trying to To people that willl never get it and who are closed minded

Tricia AKA @GimmeUnusual's picture

@Mrs.Neverson2011...my friends don't understand which is why I separate my Twitter from my Facebook. No offense to any @TreysAngels that asked me to follow them on Facebook, but my Facebook is only for my family & friends. Twitter is for my TreyFam! I don't mix the two. Before I follow someone (other than certain celebrities), they have to be a Trey lover/supporter...that way I know I can talk about him as much as I want w/o getting any backlash. On my computer @ home & at work is Trey's picture on my desktop. I have a "Trey" folder on both desktops where I keep my Fan Fictions & pictures of him. The background of "Mozilla Fox" has Trey on it. I love me some Trey & I support him 100%. As soon as I upgrade from this HORRIBLE cell phone which doesn't allow me to download ring-tones, I'll have all his ring-tones too. Don't be ashamed & don't worry about people not supporting him how U do. U just do U & let them do them. It's all gravy baby. LOL

HIs-LastTime's picture

Thanks LADIES> This makes me feel a LOT better, ii mean where else to go to talk about TREY other than here.

ii Just get so sick of it the BS... ii dont like anybody talking about MY TREY and ii will have a problem with you about it. My mom, and TWO of my sisters love him too, but ii dont feel they go HARD ENOUGH for him, so ii even get mad at them for not being good enough SUPPORTER, you cant say you "LOVE HIM" and not support him properly. ii seriously have long conversations about trey songz to my older sister cause she will sit and talk about him (She's Married) and she does it, so whats wrong with me doing it? Its the people that DONT like him as MUCH as ii do , that think its ABNORMAL> Its so crazy to the point ppl think ii am obsessed.

TRUE STORY: ii logged in here (TreySongz.com) on SAT at work and this girl sitting next to me told everybody in the showroom (I work at a CarDealership) what ii was doing so they all gave me these funny looks,(ii was heated) Me Friend asked to see my phone it was TREY, he was like "ii know you dont got TREY SONGZ" on ya screen??? Somebody DM'd me on TWITTER, "stop tweeting about @treysongz, he not going to follow you" They say IM too old to be in a fan club... ii try to explain that there are ppl way older than me, but they dont know anything...

ii LOVE TREY so Y'all are right HATERS CAN KICK ROCKS, with SOCKs on

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@tricia

Oh that's a good way to get votes through FB.

Tricia AKA @GimmeUnusual's picture

LMAO @thelsteve...that's right!!!
@CutTGirl609 - my mom doesn't listen to Trey...I'm sure she's never heard any of his songs. She primarily listens to gospel music. I broke down last week & told her I wanted to be an author & she asked what kind of books I wanted to write. I told her Erotic/Romance, but I told her she couldn't read any of it. She quickly put me in my place. She told me she was a Christian and that her actions will show that she is a Christian, but she is also a woman, and as a woman she likes to read Zane. My mouth hit the floor. So she asked could she read my Fan Fiction of Trey & I gave it to her. She said she really enjoyed it. I was really surprised but glad. That's when she said..."If you can write stuff like this about Trey...you must REALLY love him." LMAO
@JesusIsMySavior - as of lately I've been trying to keep my comments about Trey on Twitter, but for voting I post it on Facebook (AMA, People's Choice, FUSE, & 106 & Park) because I can reach more people.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@thelsteve

LOL

thelsteve@hotmail.com's picture

Let me just say as a "seasoned" Angel, I get it ALL the time. "Why you going all out for this young dude? You will never meet him! He is just not who you should be supporting!" Blah Blah Blah. I LOVE Trey Songz and will tell anyone. I am going to see him in Vegas on the 13th and I live in San Diego! My husband says he is second to Trey and some days that is true (LMAO), but who is reaping the benes from my obsession...that's right my hubby and he knows it. So I let him talk and others who talk mess know that I can't be swayed. I mean my facebook is Trigga inspired. Friend me if you want...it's Thelma Stevenson. It's like a fan page to Trey...whateva. I gotta be me and that is a 42 Y/O, married, with 2 kids obsessed with TREY SONGZ woman!

Lashawnda_3's picture

It happens to me all the time i just dont pay people any attention because i feel like i enjoy trey songz and i dont care what anybody else thinks

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@Kikamiko

What a nice husband. :)

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@Tricia

I usually don't say much on FB but I have posted pictures I took at concerts and most of my friends say how much they love Trey

My mom is really crazy. I remember last year watching the BET awards and Trey was performing with Tyrese and Johnny Gill and she kept asking "who's that guy". I figured she knew who Tyrese and Johnny was so I told her who he was and she said "Oh he's cute". LOL This year's show the first thing that came out her mouth was "Oh Trey seems like a nice guy" :)

RITTALUV's picture

@trinaa33 girl i get soo offended wen someone says they dont know who he is or when they say something ugly bout him...i always have to lash back at them n make sure they kno im hurt lol SMH

trinaa33 WiseAngel's picture

Y'ALL KNOW WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We all love Trey for real, because when somebody says something ugly about him it hurts my feelings for real, like he is my brother or more and I know we all feel that same irritation when people say shit just to get a rise out of us! I stopped giving them that satisfaction and just talk about Trey more! I LOVE TREY ALL DAY! ( FLAPPING MY WINGS)

iSparks87's picture

Yes. It happens to me all the time. I ignore it. It doesn't bother me when people call me those things because I know that I'm not what they are calling me. They do it out of ignorance because they don't understand and it makes me laugh. As far as the boyfriend thing, I've been there. My ex always got mad because I was always listening to Trey and on his website. He flipped when he came home one day. I was playing my XBox and he saw a picture of Trey as my background on my XBox Dashboard. It was priceless LOL! I ignored that too and I told him if he didn't like hearing Trey's music all the time, he could leave. I didn't extend him an invitation to move in with me anyways but whatever with that whole situation LLS. People try to piss me off on purpose about liking Trey by saying bad things about him and calling him names. It does upset me a little bit but I know deep down that if Trey wasn't as good as he is at what he does, he wouldn't have so many haters and I use that as ammo to go even harder for him. I turn it into positivity. A soft answer turneth away wrath. =)

CutTiGurl609's picture

@ tricia

my mom isn't really on Trey like that but my dad is! lol its so funny he got tickets for him and his fiance to the omg tour (notice i didn't say me... i let him have it) and I told him about the fan club and he said that he's a Trey's Angelo lmao its kinda weird but its cool

CutTiGurl609's picture

Well one person used to do the same thing to me. He would always speak negative about Trey and tell me I would never meet the guy and I'm crazy. And it used to make me mad because he knows how passionate I am about Trey but yet he intentionally tried to ruin my moment.

Soooo.... when I had enough I cussed him out and cut him OFF! lol

Now he knows that if he wants to be in my life as my friend he can't say nothing negative about Trey. Hell, he even became a fan after that. lol "Oh so how was the show wit Trey the other day?" ppppbbbbbbb lol he better had switched that up lmao

Kikamiko's picture

Everyone that truly knows me knows I LOVE me some Trey....Some how I find some way to bring him up in a coversation (not on purpose lol) every damn day to the point that my family and friends call me if they find out anything pertaining to Trey (so sweet).lmao And my biggest supporter of my OVER THE TOP love for Trey is my wonderful hubby.:) If he's out and runs across a magazine with him in it, he brings it home to me knowing it will put a smile on my face. Anything pertaining to Trey that I want he's willing to get it for me. If he hears someone say something out of the way about my boo he's like oooh you better be glad my wife didn't hear you say that she would have cut you with her eyes.lmao

I've had people say umm Kikie you know he's too young for you, you got a husband, your a stalker...EVERYTHING!! I don't let it bother me, cause on the real everyone has an artist or celebrity they love so once they finally shut the hell up talking crazy about my boo I just say hmm....Well ya know what I STILL LOVE ME SOME TREY!!...YUUUP!

KA-LEE-YA...KALEYIA's picture

dat happens to me all da time!!!!!!!! smdh...... i hate haterz..... but i let people no i love him..... i stopped listenin to haterz cuz dey dnt realli no u lik u no urself..... u no u aint no stalker, n u no u normal.... so forget wat dey say.... let dem keep on talkin...... n wen u do see or talk to him LET DAT BE KNOWN so dey can feel real stupid..... so yea u aint da only 1

Shay - Epiphany Angel's picture

Da way I see it eff da haters! Deep down inside dey probably love Trey just as much as us but dey wanna call us out! Naw boo, i'm gonna support Trey! So dey can say whateva dey want... Far from groupie!

Courtney_14's picture

@tinkerbella #BellaAngel- perfect definition of a groupie! totally agree!

tinkerbella BellaAngel's picture

lol @tricia my mom dont c nothing wrong wit it either...she sings his songs lol...

Tricia AKA @GimmeUnusual's picture

Yes - this happens to me. My best friend & co-workers call me a stalker, but I don't care. Every time I post something on Facebook about Trey, I get numerous of comments..."He's too old for you...Stalker...You one post away from needing help...Etc." I am in my early 30's - I'm not ancient for crying out loud! Nevertheless, I politely say, "If you don't want to receive my threads, there is a friend delete button...USE IT." They always comment back "LOL" so they know I don't care. My mom sees nothing wrong with my "SUPPORT" of Trey. She even read my last Fan Fiction and loved it. She also noted that he was cute & she could see why I like him so much. I did reiterate that I don't just like him for his looks...that's an extra bonus because it's a lot of artists that I think are cute...I love him for his down-to-earth personality, he's hilarious, and I love his music. Her comments mean the most to me, so everyone else can kick boulders.

tinkerbella BellaAngel's picture

To me a groupie is a person that dont even care about the artist music...they see all that $$$$ ...they the ones that try to get n their hotel rooms..they the ones that will do any and everything to the artist and his entourage....Fans actually like the music, go to shows, join fan clubs etc.....

Raven RambunctiousAngel's picture

OMG @Daniel_Shawn My Friends Call Me A Groupie! i Put On a straight Face And ask Them To Tell me The meaning Of a groupie And Tell Me How I Fit That... They never have Nothing To say After That!! people use Words they Hear And Don't Know the Meaning or Think We Won't Say anything Back!! they Got The Wrong one if They Think I Won't Open my mouth and Let Them know how I feel!!

Daniel_Shawn's picture

tht actually happened 2 me 2day someday had the nerve 2 call me a groupie i mean of course i pulled out my dictionary and gave them the definition of a groupie and asked them am i doin any of the things in this definition well she aint have ntn else 2 say personally i brush off stupid crap like tht call me whatever u want but I'M A TREY SONGZ ADDICT AND I'M PROUD!!!!! and everybody else is jus mad cuz they're not angels. :)

Courtney_14's picture

@ECJ- haha its just crazy how people react! im like just let me BE people! yeah i may go alittle over board but isn't it better that i focus the little extra time i have on a sexy man like trey rather than go out and do drugs and drink? just doesnt make sense. lol

tinkerbella BellaAngel's picture

Exactly! there is no difference...dudes go hard their fav teams....I know some die hard Kobe bryant fans that will b heated if u talk about him...IDK mayb people feel its different because they think we only like him for his looks...which is not true

Raven RambunctiousAngel's picture

Girl i Play Trey All Day Not caring What Anyone says!! They Know Not To Come To Be With Some B.S. I Talk about Him non-stop!!! I Tell My Mother To Tell Her friends To Vote For Him & things Like That!! They say i'm Crazy!! Why Is it Crazy? i Wanted To See Some1 Make It and he Did! He's Not Done So I'm Not done Supporting Him!!!.. Everyone With Stupid comments Or negative opinions can KMA!! Excuse Me Ladies!! But I'm So Serious!!

Mariama Neverson's picture

Every body at school know I love Trey Songz....they call me Mrssongz or Mariama neverson...but haters always have something to say but the main girls talkin are the hoes of the school...my man likes trey's music so he know he will get dropped if he had a problem with him

ECJ's picture

Hi my name is Erica and I'm addicted to Trey Songz and I'm proud of it!!! lol
My husband is cool with it now that he sees that I'm serious and I'm not stopping!! @Courtney I got laughed at and called a groupie by by family when I told them I joined the fan club!! I totally agree with you!!

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