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  • SO WHAT I'M GONNA DO NOW IS FREAK THE FREAK OUT!!!
    January 02, 2011

    I honestly cannot take it anymore!! When I joined this fanclub a couple of months ago, everybody seemed really cool, and it made me really wanna be here. Everybody was focused on doing some Charity work, doing something nice for the community, helping each other, building each other's spirits, being there for one another! I wanted to be apart of it! But now, there's NOTHING here but DRAMA!!! I feel like everybody's too wrapped up on trying to be a better Angel than the next Angel! Trying to be more popular, trying to feel like u're better than everybody else. NO!! THAT'S NOT HOW THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE!!

     

    Had it been up to me, I probably would have never joined something like this in the first place. But when I really fucks wit u, (celebrity wise) then i fucks wit u, HARD. Anybody that knows me knows this. I was the same way with Chris Brown for five years, and now I'm the same way with Trey. I go hard for both of em. The only difference is, Chris didn't have a fan club family that he wanted all his real fans to be apart of. Trey did. So out of love for him, I became apart of it. And out of love for him, i'm trying to STAY apart of it. BUT YA'LL ARE MAKING IT HARD! There is NO REAL LOVE HERE! If there is, I sure don't feel any of it!

     

    I don't like drama. I try to shy away from it, unless I really have no choice, and even then, I don't stay in it too long. I put my two cents in, and i'm out. Squashed. I don't wanna step out of the real world where it's full of bs and step into a virtual reality world, where's there's even MORE bs, than normal! I wanna come here, and forget about all my problems, and rep Trey with a family that loves him just as much as i do (probably even more). But how can I do that when everyone's fighting???

     

    I don't know weather this is a sorority, a family, a fanclub, probably all of the above, because sometimes, that's what it feels like. But i do know that something needs to change. We have something very unique that no other fanclub has, and we're messing it up. Yeah there are posts going around about the negativity being gone, and shout-outs to the Angels that are starting them, and agreeing with what's being written and said. But what good does it do to talk about it, but still see no action being done to change anything? Instead of things getting better around here, things are getting worse!  It's really making me not wanna be here anymore.

     

    I don't know if I can honestly ever fully leave, because everytime I think i want to, Trey does something to sucker me back into being here. Like the fanclub cards he sent out for Christmas. Which I think was nice of him, it was like he gave US something for Christmas. No other celebrity does stuff like that for us either! What other celebrity do you know that looks out for their fans as much as he does (without us putting money in their pockets first_) when u think of someone, let me know. He goes hard for his Angels, and I'm tryna go hard for him. But I just don't know how much longer I'm gonna be able to do it. 

     

    I think we ALL need to get back to the reason of why we're here in the first place. We need rules here, we need guidelines that EVERYBODY is gonna have to abide by, and EVERYBODY needs to talk. EVERYBODY! If we're gonna be a family, sorority, etc...then we need to act like it, and do things the way they should be done. We need to do it the right way. If we're gonna call ourselves something, then we need live up to what we're claimng ourselves to be. 

     

    And yeah I used a Nickelodian song. Sue me. That's my shit. lls.

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tiffan700's picture
on Jan 2, 2011 - 07:47PM

I honestly cannot take it anymore!! When I joined this fanclub a couple of months ago, everybody seemed really cool, and it made me really wanna be here. Everybody was focused on doing some Charity work, doing something nice for the community, helping each other, building each other's spirits, being there for one another! I wanted to be apart of it! But now, there's NOTHING here but DRAMA!!! I feel like everybody's too wrapped up on trying to be a better Angel than the next Angel! Trying to be more popular, trying to feel like u're better than everybody else. NO!! THAT'S NOT HOW THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE!!

 

Had it been up to me, I probably would have never joined something like this in the first place. But when I really fucks wit u, (celebrity wise) then i fucks wit u, HARD. Anybody that knows me knows this. I was the same way with Chris Brown for five years, and now I'm the same way with Trey. I go hard for both of em. The only difference is, Chris didn't have a fan club family that he wanted all his real fans to be apart of. Trey did. So out of love for him, I became apart of it. And out of love for him, i'm trying to STAY apart of it. BUT YA'LL ARE MAKING IT HARD! There is NO REAL LOVE HERE! If there is, I sure don't feel any of it!

 

I don't like drama. I try to shy away from it, unless I really have no choice, and even then, I don't stay in it too long. I put my two cents in, and i'm out. Squashed. I don't wanna step out of the real world where it's full of bs and step into a virtual reality world, where's there's even MORE bs, than normal! I wanna come here, and forget about all my problems, and rep Trey with a family that loves him just as much as i do (probably even more). But how can I do that when everyone's fighting???

 

I don't know weather this is a sorority, a family, a fanclub, probably all of the above, because sometimes, that's what it feels like. But i do know that something needs to change. We have something very unique that no other fanclub has, and we're messing it up. Yeah there are posts going around about the negativity being gone, and shout-outs to the Angels that are starting them, and agreeing with what's being written and said. But what good does it do to talk about it, but still see no action being done to change anything? Instead of things getting better around here, things are getting worse!  It's really making me not wanna be here anymore.

 

I don't know if I can honestly ever fully leave, because everytime I think i want to, Trey does something to sucker me back into being here. Like the fanclub cards he sent out for Christmas. Which I think was nice of him, it was like he gave US something for Christmas. No other celebrity does stuff like that for us either! What other celebrity do you know that looks out for their fans as much as he does (without us putting money in their pockets first_) when u think of someone, let me know. He goes hard for his Angels, and I'm tryna go hard for him. But I just don't know how much longer I'm gonna be able to do it. 

 

I think we ALL need to get back to the reason of why we're here in the first place. We need rules here, we need guidelines that EVERYBODY is gonna have to abide by, and EVERYBODY needs to talk. EVERYBODY! If we're gonna be a family, sorority, etc...then we need to act like it, and do things the way they should be done. We need to do it the right way. If we're gonna call ourselves something, then we need live up to what we're claimng ourselves to be. 

 

And yeah I used a Nickelodian song. Sue me. That's my shit. lls.

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CutTiGurl609's picture

lol @lisaleigh soul train tho?! so we should be bustin moves up in here huh lol

lisaleigh30's picture

Love , Peace, and Soul!

trinaa33 WiseAngel's picture

Whenever you have alot of females in one area together there will always be drama, I am not saying it's right but that is the way of life especially with so many personalities and ages. So I agree with everybody else don't stay on those post by pass them and continue being positive and sooner or later it will die down but keep supporting Trey.

TEETIMME's picture

SIGH...I just cant believe that I keep reading posts like this! IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE! Hell I laugh at all the drama bc of the reality of the situation! Lol, Trey dont know MOST of us are alive, but I know he appreciates us ALL! So if those other angels wanna fight, let'em, heck I get a kick out of it, I be LOLing, lol! I like to look at it as they are showing their way of love for him, KWIM? Dont let that discourage you..UNFOLLOW if u need! Keep your eye on the prize...that is SUPPORT TREY & HIS MOVEMENT!
Much love
TEE

LadyBriSongz's picture

I understand where you're coming from hun. I just joined the club a few weeks a go and I've seen some drama amongst the Angel sisters. It's really petty stuff that really shouldn't even cause arguments but of course it turns into a big fight. I hope you decide to stick it out! I hope 2011 is the year that all this petty arguing stops so we can do what we're supposed to do as Angels.

ForeverSmilez's picture

hey i started this fan club not so long ago because i love trey songz and support him.You also came to this fan club to support Trey as well.. dont let anybody keep you away from doing what u want to do.. just stay positive

1SocialBFly TimelessAngel's picture

Doll.....Stay Prayed up and Continue to do what you came here to do LOVE AND SUPPORT Trey Songz.....You never let ANYONE Deter you from Being here.....RELEVANCE is my KEY word for 2011.....the ONLY way you will take me out of My ELEMENT is if you are RELEVANT.....if not you go UNNOTCED!!!!!!!.....Stay Strong there are STILL Many Angels that will continue to MAKE this a POSITIVE MOVEMENT......Take Care:)

babidollface1's picture

one more thing............ when you feel down about this "MOVEMENT" and you have access to You Tube.Try watching some of trey's old Ustream videos and interviews. When i look at Treys Videos it makes me feel better. TREY always cheers me up when i may be feeling down, he has that affect...he can make you happy just from the sight of him!!!!
He's so adorable!!!

babidollface1's picture

*that may not know how to handled a decent conversation

Sorry i should of proofread!

babidollface1's picture

You can not let the "hater" Angels deter you from your mission. You arnt the only one who has encountered some sort of shade from an Angel in here or witnessed some sort of adversity. i am one of those people who have felt that too!!! I love Trey and i keep that as my Focus. I am here for him.
You are in control of what you want to see and deal with. if you dont want to get caught up in mess, reframe from the discussions because they can get a little heated when you have differnces of opinion, especially when you may be dealing with immature individuals that may not not how to hpld a decent conversation. Yes this is the virtual world and the same people that are out in the world are the same GOOD OR BAD people that are behind these screens. So knowing that, you can expect to run in to those sheisty people on here TOO! The good thing about it is ...YOU can turn your device off and not deal with the B/s you can also choose what you want to see and deal with.
I work off my heart and if my heart tells me someone isnt right even in the slightest manner ,the Red flags go up and i steer clear of them.There will be someone that you will connect with on here eventualy even if its just one person out of the 80,OOO of us on here. be patient, she will surface. It takes us as individuals to take the inititive to connect with others as well. if you dont get the right response or that chemistry isnt there,it wont happen. let it ride..she wasnt you "ANGELMATE" lbs.
How about you get on your charity grind,set an example,& encourage some angels that may have lost their way in flight. You have that power to gather up Angels within your reach in your area to make that tight connection. Ive seen many of cities of Angels who have banned together and they are doing awesome things (S/o) to the Chicago Angels and The bay angels etc etc who did their thing in 2010. I may not be able to connect w my city angels but i know that I am capable. If i have to stand alone so.be.it

CutTiGurl609's picture

I hope you feel better and continue to support Trey, his brand and this fan club. And most of all stay positive. You see something you don't necessary like just laugh at it and like @coogi said keep it movin on to the things that you do like.

CutTiGurl609's picture

I'm thinkin the same way as @JesusIsMySavior.... R u gettin most of this negative vibe from twitter? Because I can say that 99% of the time I feel anything negative when I type treysangels.com in my browser, is when we make posts like this. A couple months ago a made a similar post but I'm realizing the drama was actually on twitter and most of these posts are steming from something that happened on twitter.

Maybe you should limit your use of twitter or your involvement with some of the people on twitter causing the drama. I just use twitter to keep up with what Trey is doing and its been mostly drama free.

Now as far as Angels trying to be better than others, I think I've noticed that goin on this site a little bit but its only cause they want him to notice how much they support him and thats just the way people are, very competitive. It can be annoying to those of us that aren't competitive but thats life. It'll always be bad along with the good. Its the way you handle it that determines its outcome.

@iamSHEA's picture

I definitely understand where you're coming from. Yeah the whole bonding thing seemed cool in the beginning but as the whole fanclub grew and people started getting more comfortable, the vibe changed.

I don't think you should leave though. Just ignore the negativity and mingle with people with similar attitudes. So many females and only one Trey, there's always going to be some sort of "drama".

Tricia AKA @GimmeUnusual's picture

Tiffan700 - You can go to church and find drama...I don't understand why people think that a fanclub is an exception to the drama. People at church supposed to have a love for the Almighty; however, the drama in some churches is ridiculous. You have to rise above the drama...not get sucked into it. Connect with the Angels that you can build a positive rapport with...keep your heart open to accepting more, and the ones that you see are constantly negative stay away from them if your spirit can't take it. I don't like negativity either. I try my best to pour out as much positivity as possible and if the negative ones won't come over to the sunlight, then I let them bask in their darkness. You only have control over yourself. If you don't like something...move on to the next best thing. You don't have to leave the site or fanclub...it's too many other things available.

OfficialNenaNicole@gmail.com's picture

@COOGIdown i couldn't have said it better!

JesusIsMySavior's picture

Are you finding that there is more negativity on twitter?

BBunny952's picture

Okay, well first of all I'm not an advocate for "freaking out" so lets just take a deep breath for a second.... Woo-sah.

Better? Okay, good.

Unfortunately, I hear a lot of Angels that feel the same way you do right now and it's really disheartening to hear. Yes, we're all here because we support Trey and his music.
But what Trey also wants out of this endeavor is for us to get to know and support each other.

You're right. We have an opportunity to be more than "just a fanclub" and yes... there are some people that are doing a good job of ruining the positive atmosphere. But there are plenty more people that are trying to push positivity into the foreground.

I'd hate to see you go, so please don't. Positive reinforcements are coming... Hang in here with us and we'll prove it to you. :)

-Bunny

p.s. Follow me on Twitter if you'd like to continue with this discussion: @BBunny952

christygunter57@gmail.com's picture

The only reason that i go hard Trey is because the love that he had for his fans is real he's not just saying that.When he say he love us i really believe that.What celeb do you know that drove in the snow to a hotel just to do a utream with us.Its just the little things that he does to let us know that he love us,How he remembers some of his angels when he see us at his shows.Trey needs our support.Us angels play a part in his life just think how it will makes him feel when he see us in the audience at one his show going hard for him that proably makes his day.He's always shouting us out in interviews.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

I agree with Coogi.

Ariel @COOGIdown's picture

you're here for Trey, right? stay here for Trey. its as easy as that. if you wanna leave... how down are you? you dont HAVE to put up with the BS while you're here, girl. just click the red x in the corner of the screen and move on. enter and then comment on the discussions that make you HAPPY and that you support. dont waste your time on the ones that are other wise. if every one does this the negativity will not even be acknowledged.

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