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    January 01, 2011

    I am not writing this to start any arguments or point fingers.  This is just how I feel.
    If you disagree that is cool. Feel free to leave comments. But keep them positive please and thank you!

    This is a start of a new year and I think we should make some changes for Trey!!!!

    I don’t get on Twitter or the Trey’s Angels site as much as I use to because of  the negative tweets and post.  I was thinking about letting Twitter and the fan club go because of the negativity. And only buying his albums and going to his concerts. But as I thought about doing this I came to the conclusion that I would be turning my back on Trey and I will never do that. Trey is very loyal to his Angels and fans. I think that it is only fair that we show hi the same loyalty. I understand that we all have different ways of showing support to Trey, however it should be done with respect. I will be the first to admit that I did not take part in all  of the contest that Trey offered the past 3 months. Because I had a lot going on in my life. However, I did encourage the other Angels who did. And most of all I kept the positive tweets going to Trey. I know that he can’t answer every tweet but I choose to believe that he reads them and they  puts a smile on his was when things got him stressed out.        

    There is only one Trey and a few people who works on the official @treys angels page. There for every tweet can not be answered.

    I can not and would not if I could pin point who the negative energy is coming from. I just wish it would stop. I also see a lot of ungratefulness.  Like I said before there is only one Trey that has a lot of stuff to do. If for some  reason Trey dose not do follow Friday don’t tweet why did Trey not follow  anyone take it that he was busy or resting. By doing that it makes us all look ungrateful and that we don’t appreciate what Trey dose for us.

    Trey goes out of his way to do things for us. Great example Christmas day. He left his family drove in snow to get a motel room so that he could ustream with us. First of all  Trey could have been at home with his family  and never gave us any thought. But he not only thought about us he took a chance of driving on snow for us! That says a lot about how Trey care about us. After things did not work out he left us a  Say Now message and you could hear the disappointment in his voice.  Trey really cares for us.

    The  negativity, auguring, and fighting amongst ourselves needs to stop!!! There are people out there that would love to see Trey Songz and Treys Angels fail. We need to get be hind Trey and support him in all that he do and know that at the end of the day we did our part in supporting Trey in reaching his goals and dreams.

    The negativity, auguring, and fighting amongst ourselves is not only making the ones who is doing it look bad it is making all the Angels and most of all Trey look bad. So lets start today making a change for Trey. Lets make this fan club what Trey wants it to be a place where we can come together and support him. Do things for our communities and grow together.

    In closing I would like to wish all of  my fellow Angels a Happy New Year. My your year be full of blessings, happiness, and good health the whole year through!!!!! J

      

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msamaris@hotmail.com's picture
on Jan 1, 2011 - 04:10PM

I am not writing this to start any arguments or point fingers.  This is just how I feel.
If you disagree that is cool. Feel free to leave comments. But keep them positive please and thank you!

This is a start of a new year and I think we should make some changes for Trey!!!!

I don’t get on Twitter or the Trey’s Angels site as much as I use to because of  the negative tweets and post.  I was thinking about letting Twitter and the fan club go because of the negativity. And only buying his albums and going to his concerts. But as I thought about doing this I came to the conclusion that I would be turning my back on Trey and I will never do that. Trey is very loyal to his Angels and fans. I think that it is only fair that we show hi the same loyalty. I understand that we all have different ways of showing support to Trey, however it should be done with respect. I will be the first to admit that I did not take part in all  of the contest that Trey offered the past 3 months. Because I had a lot going on in my life. However, I did encourage the other Angels who did. And most of all I kept the positive tweets going to Trey. I know that he can’t answer every tweet but I choose to believe that he reads them and they  puts a smile on his was when things got him stressed out.        

There is only one Trey and a few people who works on the official @treys angels page. There for every tweet can not be answered.

I can not and would not if I could pin point who the negative energy is coming from. I just wish it would stop. I also see a lot of ungratefulness.  Like I said before there is only one Trey that has a lot of stuff to do. If for some  reason Trey dose not do follow Friday don’t tweet why did Trey not follow  anyone take it that he was busy or resting. By doing that it makes us all look ungrateful and that we don’t appreciate what Trey dose for us.

Trey goes out of his way to do things for us. Great example Christmas day. He left his family drove in snow to get a motel room so that he could ustream with us. First of all  Trey could have been at home with his family  and never gave us any thought. But he not only thought about us he took a chance of driving on snow for us! That says a lot about how Trey care about us. After things did not work out he left us a  Say Now message and you could hear the disappointment in his voice.  Trey really cares for us.

The  negativity, auguring, and fighting amongst ourselves needs to stop!!! There are people out there that would love to see Trey Songz and Treys Angels fail. We need to get be hind Trey and support him in all that he do and know that at the end of the day we did our part in supporting Trey in reaching his goals and dreams.

The negativity, auguring, and fighting amongst ourselves is not only making the ones who is doing it look bad it is making all the Angels and most of all Trey look bad. So lets start today making a change for Trey. Lets make this fan club what Trey wants it to be a place where we can come together and support him. Do things for our communities and grow together.

In closing I would like to wish all of  my fellow Angels a Happy New Year. My your year be full of blessings, happiness, and good health the whole year through!!!!! J

  

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-IMCALYAA...TRIGGUHANGEL-'s picture

i agree 100% on this post it is true we are better then this he dont want too see any angels/fans fighting and whinning begging and all that for a follow he will follow us it might take a long time but he will we have too understand that we arent always right about things we arent always wrong but this is horrible news we cant keep doing this its not us we are bigger and better we are setting bad examples on the younger fans and angels im one of the younger fans/angels and im 100% positive on this post this have gotten way too far now lets show him that we are here too support and love and accept him and his work cus if he wasnt famous he would be right now at his home chilling with his family but this really needa stop like now its gotten too much out of control soo lets show him a change that we can do with no problems :))

Dymplez_Yuuup's picture

I agree with this post as well...We all just have to try and come together and be one big Trey loving family. :) I am new to being an angel but like all of u i am a fan and im looking forward to getting to know more about trey as well as u guys. With that being said Follow me on Twitter.. I do Follow back! @Dymplez_Yuuup

msamaris@hotmail.com's picture

I agree with you @CrazyBeauty 100%! I have noticed the same thing. When I wrote this back in January there was a lot of arguing and stuff going on from what I can tell it has gotten better. I guess because I am older than some Angels here I look at things differently. I will be truthful I got on twitter because of Trey but never cared if he followed me or not. Which he is and I am glad that he did. I just wanted to know more about him. I send him tweets not for an answer but in hope that he see my tweets when he his having a not so good day and they puts a smile on his face. I try to be positive person and spread positive vibes to others.

MyLifeAsNiecy's picture

I've personally never seen any arguing among the Angels. For the most part everybody seems to get along, and some become friends outside of the fan club. However, I have noticed a lot of anger toward Trey for things like not answering tweets or DM's. I'm sure he gets 1000's of messages, and at the end of the day he's still human like the rest of us, so it would be impossible to anwer them all. I don't think any of the Angels mean any harm, I guess their just disappointed. Nice post @ms.yuup

TreysQuietAngel's picture

@ ms.yuup, I agree. I like plenty of other artist, but something has hooked me on Trey. He really seems like he cares about ALL of his fans. I think he's one of a kind as well.

msamaris@hotmail.com's picture

Well put @ridorie angel I never really thought about the fact that Trey is the only artist to do something like this. Wich I know he is! But I can say this about Trey and mean it from my heart he is the first artist that has made me feel he is really greatful for his fans! Trey is one of a kind! That I really enjoy.

ladyt1980's picture

i appreciate that u r being honest about ur feelings & i feel as though we have alot of personalities cumming 2gether that sumtimes clash but i feel its those personalities that also make trey's angels wat we r. we need 2 understand that trey has started sumthng that no other artist has eva done & we need 2 understand that we represent a man that is humble, caring, & full of life. so if we angels can try 2 remember that & get pass all this jealousy we wud b just fine. trey luvs us all & we have 2 remember that. angelflight my sistas & brothers

msamaris@hotmail.com's picture

@Auburn63 ok thanks

SpiritualAngel's picture

My Twitter is @Auburn63 I think I we are following each other already.

msamaris@hotmail.com's picture

Thank everyone for the comments. Thanks for taken the time to read my post. @Trey's_Tenshi well put. You and I thoughts are the same. Trey see our tweets and what not and at a time when he is stressed he don't need to see then negative stuff. @#SplendidAngel that is true the negativity might turn new Angels away.

TreysQuietAngel's picture

Awesome post! You are so right, negativity is not what Trey's Angels should engage in. We are more than just fans of his, we are part of his family. We are suppose to support Trey throughout it all. He's a sexy celeb... but we can't forget that he's only human. He's a person just as we are. With him being who he is, he has plenty of things to do. He may not get to reply to all of us... but I am so sure that he reads each of our comments. Therefore, we need to say something supportive in regards to Trey and each other. Sometimes Trey may be in a stressful mood or sad about something... when he logs on to his fan sites and sees streams and streams of love I'm sure his heart will just blossom! If he sees how the Angels are online fighting each other, nagging, bickering and such... his saddness or stress may deepen and we don't want that!

We are here to support Tremaine Neverson and to make a difference in our communities while joining together as a team. Team Angels lets do better!

@VerifiedFancy's picture

#Amen

SplendidAngel's picture

I know that this post is a few months old, but I totally agree with what you have to say. Not only is the negativity making Trey look bad. But, it's make future Angels not want to join the fan club because of the what they might see on the internet. So, us, angels, must COME TOGETHER and solve our issues in a better way. A way that's not making us, angels, look bad.

thelsteve@hotmail.com's picture

Wow, very inspiring words. Many fans forget that Trey Songz is a whole other person, Tremaine Neverson. Sometimes he just needs to be that person and no one else. I agree with everything you have said. I often have to take a twitter and/or fan club break just to reset myself as I am sure Trey does. Doesn't mean he is not thinking about his fans or wanting to do things for him, just means he needs a break. Keep up with the family hun, you belong here!

msamaris@hotmail.com's picture

@Aubrurn63 What is your twitter? And thanks for your comment.

SpiritualAngel's picture

I agree with everything you said we need to show love and up lifted one another. We are Treys Angels representing him, we are not just a fan club we are a sisterhood. I am glad you decided not to leave Twitter or the Family. I see where are coming from on the negativity and I don't like it read it and I SMH, we all have are own opinion but that don't mean we should degrade each other. We got to show love for one another Trey is are main focus ladies let's represent him with respect and love. I love all my Angel Sister.

msamaris@hotmail.com's picture

@oneshadowlove Thanks for your comment. When I wrote this I was seeing a lot of NEGATIVITY on my time line and was really making me unhappy. I did unfollow a lot of people and things are a whole lot better. You are so right when you say it is not easy getting along with thousands of opinionated women. Have a blessed day Angel Sis!

oneshadowlove's picture

Awesome posting!!! Definitely dislike the negativity But I must say I see more positive than I do negative. Its draining to me to see all the negative towards each other. I fall victim to the negativity at times myself. But out of respect I just unfollow those on twitter who takes me out of my character. I believe that this "famclub" is new and its going to take some time to grow. Its not easy getting along with thousands of opinionated women ~ but it did need to be addressed and I really appreciated reading your words. Ladies let's use all that energy to vote, buy albums, promote and complete Angel With Heart missions and uplift one another for the man and the music that we love so much.

I challenge any Angel to just speak positivity in the air w/out prejudice. I know each and everyone of us can do it. So with that being said turn your head, the other cheek and ignore it and kill the negative vibes by Celebrating being an Angel.

Follow me on twitter ladies @oneshadowlove if you aren't already :)

JesusIsMySavior's picture

That's right we are all Angels whether we have a membership card or not.

MareenSaid's picture

Girl you betta preach! It's like some people forget that he's a normal person with shit to do. Sometimes people do come off as ungrateful, but I also think that part of it isn't how some of the angels/treyfam really feel, they just talk smack and make jokes. Idk.

There's also alot of negativity amongst angels OR between angels and regular Trey fans. Trey loves all his fans and was calling all of us angels BEFORE the "official fan club" It seems very "clique-ish" and immature. #ijs We all love Trey. Lets just get along and support him.

Mshicks2u's picture

You are so right! I love what you said an agree with it 100%. If we took all that negative energy and turn it positive imagine what we as Angels could get accomplished.

lisaleigh30's picture

I had to bring this post back to the front so this can be a reminder of how this fansite should be.

ShidaYuuup's picture

I agree!!! *Muahhh* I LOVE this post :-)

jenaesledge@gmail.com's picture

I agree with you 100%. I have thought the same thing so glad you posted this. My twitter is @chi_townAngel if any one wants to follow me.

msamaris@hotmail.com's picture

@msteejay what is ur twitter so that i can follow you mine is @justme2905

msteejay@yahoo.com's picture

I agree with you as well and I also considered leaving the fan club because of the negativity. I am glad that there are some angels that are here to be respectful of one another and support Trey. So glad you put these thoughts into words I feel a lot better about my decision to continue my membership now.

BabyGirlG's picture

Excuse the mistakes, trying to get so much out in so little time. Y'all know where my heart and mind was. Yes, I did say "y'all" I am a Louisiana girl.

BabyGirlG's picture

I totally agree. For me it is all about respecting yourself first. People who don't have self-respect will not respect anyone else. My thing us, if you don't like the concepts and ideals of this movement, why waste your time and energy to even comment? We are a strong group and we will not let this cancer spread amongst us. We have to stand together as a sisterhood and show them what being a lady is supposed to look like. I support all of my Angel Sisters who are for the right thing. We will overcome this, WE ARE ANGELS!! Much love LADIES!!

Diandra_M's picture

You could not have said it any better. The drama and the negativity is the exact reason why I have not been on Twitter. I know that drama is bound to emerge at times especially amongst women, but I don't understand why the drama has to continue day after day. It's really getting old. I love being apart of Trey's Angels, I just don't like the negativity that comes along with it.

BBunny952's picture

I agree 100% with everything that you posted.

I believe that together we can be more than "just a fanclub" and more like a family/sorority. But no family/sorority is without drama at times. It's how they overcome that drama is what makes them great.

If the positive forces can push past the negativity then we can be great. :)

Follow me on Twitter if you'd like to continue the conversation: @BBunny952
Thx. :)

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