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How much would you accept from Trey


  • How much would you accept from Trey
    March 06, 2011

    Just wondering...If you were Trey's girlfriend would you accept him telling everyone that he's single? Would you accept him telling you not to tell anyone about y'all? What about social events? Would you accept him walking the red carpet alone, or with anyone instead of you? And last but not least - while he's 'living single' in the public eye, would you accept him telling you where you can and can't go?


Essence711's picture
on Mar 6, 2011 - 10:12PM

Just wondering...If you were Trey's girlfriend would you accept him telling everyone that he's single? Would you accept him telling you not to tell anyone about y'all? What about social events? Would you accept him walking the red carpet alone, or with anyone instead of you? And last but not least - while he's 'living single' in the public eye, would you accept him telling you where you can and can't go?


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kg.sunshine's picture

@Linz84 - Dayum, I'm a member of LSA, but I haven't been on in a while. How did I miss that one? =D

kg.sunshine's picture

Whether we want to admit it or not, I believe that a celebrity's relationship status does play a role in his/her career. It's unfortunate, but it's true. I remember listening to an interview that Trey did some years ago & a caller called in & asked was he single. He told her that he wasn't and she got all quiet & ish. The silence was so ackward. He was like "aw nall, baby, don't be sad". I think the fantasy is what sales to some of his fans. Although deep down if they were honest with themselves, they know that they really don't have a chance - and it's not b/c he doesn't find some of fans attractive. It's probably more so b/c he knows that most would not be able to distinguish b/twn the celebrity & his actual person. They'd always want him to be "on" all the time.

So considering all of that, if I were dating a celebrity & he had to say that he was single for a while, I'd be cool w/ him saying that, b/c we'd know the truth. As long as he was being respectful in every sense of the word, I'd be cool w/ only being his friend in the public eye. But notice I said for a while. ;) Oh, and to be honest, if you're not married, you are single. :)

Linz84's picture

@Ariel I'm wondering are you a member of LSA? LOL I didn't know that Trey and Gigi was friends! LOL @ HER TAKING A PIC WITH TREY HALF-NAKED! lol

lisaleigh30's picture

@ Ariel
What I mean by side chic is no commitment.
Don't fuck with married man, coma is a mutha flocka

Ariel @COOGIdown's picture

You gain The American Dream. Fame & Fortune. Not for any of your doing; but by snagging a man who can do it for you. America's fxcked up... but thats the goal so many women have out here. And once you have it......... you dont want to go back to what you bad BEFORE all the bright lights. So.... they lower their standards & esteem that much more all the while. It's so degrading and so sad. These chicks have GOT to be bitter.
"Men cheat, lie , and steal. So the question is would you take it rich or poor." - statement of the year!
A lil bit of pain in the sheets!!! I feel you tho, thats real. But why do that to another woman? If women had a stronger bond like a sisterhood (like guys do) NONE of us would be willing to be the other woman.

lisaleigh30's picture

Damn this is a great topic.

I then ask this question, what are you gaining from accepting it? If you accept it, you get some good dick, a man who is willing to go down, financial security, and privacy.

When Kobe Bryant not only cheated on his wife but took her through two years of having her children's father to be an excused rapist. She stayed for the reasons above but mainly financial security. Life is hard but poverty is harder.

Men cheat, lie , and steal. So the question is would you take it rich or poor.

It's funny how someone can excuse Trey of being gay and people are quick to defend him but wouldn't be willing to get the pleasure of being his scret lover. Then you have to ask yourself do you want him or what comes with him.

Now I've said it before and I will say it again. I don't want to be his wife, woman, or girl. I want to be the side chic. I want all the pleasure without the pain well maybe a lit pain. LOL

Ariel @COOGIdown's picture

@Linz84 IDK what I meant by my question. lol So... infidelity was the reason why Helen & Trey broke up. I'm not pointing fingers, but "once a cheater, always a cheater." & that story you saw on MTO.... Trey's been "friends" with GiGi for a handful of years already. It has always been speculated what their relationship really is.... but they def aint "bf & gf."
@JIMS yea, her lil sis was probably on there just as much as she was. Ultimately, these men with power keep the power because every one else bows down to them. It can't be easy to find love in Hollywood when this is what they go through.

ms.Treyalicious's picture

hmmm woow now dats sum good personally wouldnt b able to take much as i love him n for da oppurtunity to b his girl i would want da whole world to kno not jst sum ppl...i would jst want to b da hottest couple around n to not b claim would b a hurtful feeling!!! i looooove him but i wouldnt accept dat

JesusIsMySavior's picture

If that truly is the situation with Fab it confirms my feelings that the mother of his child has low self esteem.

"because I can" sleep wit all these people and they all let me keep on doin it.

Sad but true.

I knew Helen and his mom frequented the boards but didn’t know her sister did too. Also posting the videos on youtube gave you a glimpse into their relationship.

"A man only does what a woman allows him to."

I totally agree.

JesusIsMySavior's picture


If I recall he said it in a Right On or Black Beat interview and stated he didn’t think he could date a fan. Though I think he wouldn’t mind celebrity fans. :)

Linz84's picture

@Ariel I don't understand your question. What do you mean?

Linz84's picture

@Ariel coogidown is it true Trey said he wouldn't date a fan? If so, why did he said that? LOL I'M HURT BY THIS!!! Lol even if Trey is in a current relationship I highly doubt that he is faithful. Lol on mediatakeout it said that Trey spend 5k on this nasty stripper. SMH @ FAB GIRL!! I heard about that story! If I was Fab girl I would leave him. LOL @ HIM SAYING GO TO THE LIVING ROOM! Damn shame! lol

Ariel @COOGIdown's picture

@Linz84 & you really think ANYONEEEE would believe you when HE (the famous celebrity) says otherwise?

Linz84's picture

I wouldn't mind if Trey told the public he was single. If I was with Trey, I wouldn't have no problem not telling people about me and Trey. I would have a problem of him telling me where I can and can't go. LOL sorry nobody can be my boss!! It really irritate me for a man to be bossy! lol SORRY CAN'T WORK FOR ME!!!

Ariel @COOGIdown's picture

So you're pretty much describing Fab's relationship wit his BM. I've read a lil bit about them and have found that thats all she is - the baby mother. She puts up with any and everything so she can keep the title & keep the lifestyle. Fab is KNOWN to be bonin Adrienne B.... and supposedly one time Fab's BM walked in on him n this video chick Sammiyah or something... and he said "go back n chill in the living room wit my boys." She turned around without looking back.
Do I want that? FXCK no.
I can only imagine what really goes on behind all the celebritys' doors. This is definitely not a case of "keeping the private life private" its more "because I can" sleep wit all these people and they all let me keep on doin it.
Its the Power of Celebrity. Chicks belittle themselves completely to get a taste.
@JIMS yea, Helen & her little sister and Trey's mom were all avid on TSMB so we got a look into their life for sure. Without that.... I think Trey & Helen's relationship would have been portrayed even more private without that connection of fans & personal life.

And I want to end this with the quote "A man only does what a woman allows him to."

Mshicks2u's picture

That is a situation I could not deal with. I'm not saying I need to always be seen with you. Or you have to be screaming my name everytime you can. But atleast acknowledge that you are in a relationship. This discussion could go really deep. Can't wait to read other comments.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

You are right about that. Too many women allow this nonsense and makes it bad for other women.

Essence711's picture

I wouldn't accept it - celeb or not because a man is a man. If he's not claiming me, and I allow that, it's like I'm just giving him the green light to cheat. Some men will admit they're already taken and still cheat. How far would a man who won't admit it go?
That man could have a whole other family someplace else. smh.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

LOL that would be too funny.

BTW thanks for the interesting topic. This is truly helping my day go by.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

Right it is false advertisement especially since Trey has no intention of dating a fan. He shouldn’t give the impression that he would. I do find it strange that he had no problem claiming Helen but very hush hush about his current status. I know it’s his personal business but I still find it strange. I think some of his fans knew who Helen was because she was active on the TSMB.

Essence711's picture

lol @JIMS
I can see myself flirting and looking at Trey like,
"What? Oh you wanna get mad? Oh, so NOW I'm your girl! I thought you was single...Yeah, you know what it is." lol
He'd be like,
"See, that's why I don't bring you nowhere."

JesusIsMySavior's picture


I knew he had a girl but I was surprised he never or hardly ever brought her to red carpet events. Yes she did allow that and to a degree she has herself to blame. You are right in the minds of these guys they could think of it as protecting their relationship. But to me protecting your relationship would be to claim the woman you are with but not revealing the intimate details of your union. Maybe certain men in the industry are doing that. To me if you have to do that than that mostly means you aren’t truly sure that the woman you are with is the one. I started liking Trey because of his music though I do find him attractive but since I found out he maybe in a relationship I still continued to like him. Every time he says he is single I’m like whatever dude. LOL

Essence711's picture

@TSAngel Yes I did, and I agree with you on the false advertising. I hope he wouldn't lie to us like that. When he was with his ex, he always admitted to being in a relationship, he just never said her name. I didn't find out her name until after their split.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

It definitely takes a certain type of woman to allow that. When I was watching that love and hip hop show I was like wow fab’s girlfriend has some self esteem issues. It doesn’t matter how attractive you are to the eye you truly can have a poor self image. I don’t care what material things Trey was giving me I wouldn’t allow that. Either you claim me or get out of my life. I think Trey is use to being the dominate one in the relationship. For some reason I think the women that he tends to link up with are the types that are in awe of him.

Essence: You’re comments are too funny. You would be Trey’s Siamese twin. That’s right put a padlock on the coochie.

Essence711's picture

I was surprised as hell to find out that fab has a girl - no, a WIFEY.
He kept her under wraps for real. Or maybe I was just too busy paying attention to Trey.
She put up with that nonsense for years, but then again, she was willing to go through that, that's why she was able to keep him.
It makes me wonder if that's what the men in the industry are doing now. Maybe they see it as a way of protecting their relationship.
I would still love him as much as I do now if he says he has a girl. He'd still be as unobtainable to me in that case as he is now.

Ty Ranae's picture

I wouldnt stand for it i mean if you can claim me in public then why would i dare to even be with you...I understand that Trey is a public figure but I feel as though him saying he was single if he wasnt would be false advertisement and unfair to many of the females who would attempt to get at him on that level I also agree with Essence about the Holding out on him

&& I also am wondering weather or not you got this from Love & Hip Hop

JesusIsMySavior's picture

I agree Ariel.

I can understand some what why Trey would say he was single he thinks he may lose some of his fan base. But I’m under the belief that if your fans truly love you it wouldn’t matter if you are single or not.

Essence did you get this question from watching love and hip hop?

Essence711's picture

If I was the woman in his life and he tried those things with me, we'd have a lot of problems. Trey probably likes to be the dominant one in the relationship. He says he doesn't like aggressive women. I'm very feminine, but I am strong willed too. I'd make sure I was right by his side at all times, photo ops and all. If he got mad, oh well. He couldn't do anything about it until we got home. And I know he wouldn't be expecting any coochie from me after he told everybody he was single. And I'd flirt with other men. Not in an obvious, slutty kind of way, but just enough for him to notice and blow his own cover.

stlgirl4lyfe2010's picture

not naw but hell naw if u can't be with me in the public aspect of your life then why or we together

Ariel @COOGIdown's picture

Nope. A man that can't or won't claim me is not the man for me. I'm a trophy, and I'm not about to get brushed off like that. I understand that a relationship is 2 people and not them & every one else... But when the whole world percieves MY MAN as single I don't think I'd be strong enough to face that.