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    March 06, 2011

    Just wondering...If you were Trey's girlfriend would you accept him telling everyone that he's single? Would you accept him telling you not to tell anyone about y'all? What about social events? Would you accept him walking the red carpet alone, or with anyone instead of you? And last but not least - while he's 'living single' in the public eye, would you accept him telling you where you can and can't go?

     

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Essence711's picture
on Mar 6, 2011 - 10:12PM

Just wondering...If you were Trey's girlfriend would you accept him telling everyone that he's single? Would you accept him telling you not to tell anyone about y'all? What about social events? Would you accept him walking the red carpet alone, or with anyone instead of you? And last but not least - while he's 'living single' in the public eye, would you accept him telling you where you can and can't go?

 

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Numba1Hon's picture

He would not respect that "girlfriend" if she accepted all of that. The "girlfriend" would be perceived as needy with no self esteem. Maybe if both agreed up front to a "friends with benefits" arrangement which would not be good for her unless that is what she really wants and only if he believes her and only if he's also open minded. We know how men have that double standard. Or he may think neither position is a good one since the friend with benefits is bound to get serious too and neither position is a good look for a woman in the media. I bet this is why he doesn't have a "girlfriend" at this point in his career. He doesn't want to put a woman in either position . But I bet he be hitting dat "no girlfriend" azz behind closed doors.

Ms. Shawn's picture

Think about it, if Trey Songz was to announce he is in a relationship and bring his woman on the red carpet with him the majority of the fans would be upset!! I just see it as a problem for his continued success. We dont know what Tremaine does on his time off so why wouldnt you want to let him "work" and then come home and enjoy time as a family? Just my opinion but I wouldnt mind..

Arianna_3's picture

Well 1st of all if hes my man i dnt cre how famous he is he would not be telling ppl dat he is single and i would make him go public and i would be wit him wlkin dwn da red carpet bc if hes my man i would wnt him to treat me like his women and would not wnt 2 feel lik i would hav to live a live all bc hes famous i wouldnt wnt 2 b his lil groupie i would wnt ppl to noe dat he is off da market @ dat time!!!

AmbitiousGirl_2's picture

i dont care what anybody says all that was stated above is not acceptable. Trey Songz is an artist, sex symbol & heart throb........but Tremaine Neverson is a regular person and yeaa sometimes the two may come together but for the most part they prolli wont. If trey was my boyfriend i would see him as his family sees him, a regular person, he cant get away with stuff just cause he trey songz. why can he walk the red carpet with someone else but not with me? i wouldnt even care about that kinda stuff tho. i wouldnt expect him to tell all our business but i would expect him to say that he has a girlfriend. but wen you in a relationship and you love someone you'll do alot to please them so i would have to make some adjustments & so would he!

luvsmesumTrey's picture

This is a business and sex does sell so it comes with da territory. I wouldn't mind him sayin he's single and really have no problem with anythin else that was mentioned above.......He's Trey he's hott and every female wants him. So in order for you to be his woman you would have 2 do alot of adjustin if dis isn't what u are use 2.......and if you don't adjust den most likely you won't be with him. From what I can tell from Trey he knows how 2 treat his woman so even tho he may be tellin da world he's single if you were his woman trust me he would go out of his way 2 give you his heart and 2 show you just how special you are 2 him.

IAmMzFotographik's picture

@TreyLady i totally agree with you. When it comes down to it its how you sell yourself as and Artist and how truthful you stay to yourself as an artist. Everyone had a job and being in the music industry is not easy its the grind but when it is all said in done at the end of the day its about your love ones.........

Ms. Shawn's picture

Honestly I would accept all of the above questions. First off we should remember he is in the music industry and by him being single would attract more fans which would lead to stability in the finance department why not? I have thought about all of the questions above and I wouldnt have a problem. Sex sells and Trey is sexy. Usher lost most of his female fan base when annouced he was engaged and the baby and all that. Its more of how strong minded you are.

Linz84's picture

@ariel lol yea i do be seeing those dick reports from Trey! LMFAO!!!!!!! NO GIRL EVER COMPLAIN ABOUT his beast lol.

SongzBirdie's picture

Wow, well since this is hypothetical, extremely hypothetical lol then I would have to say I would have to accept friendship. You have to expect the busy-ness of the business and understand that person's position as well as them understanding yours. If he was not ready for a relationship then there's no point in pressing the issue.The reality is artist's are put in positions where they have to face temptations too often, not all are weak, but not all are strong. I would have a bit of a problem with being the "secret" girlfriend, which is why I would keep it on a friend type basis. As far as the telling of where I can go lol as long as it is valid reasoning then I'm all for it. ?

Essence711's picture

LOL!! Why the hell did I just write - Entry 19. I'm losing it, y'all.

@Tee
Yes I understand your point completely. I have a friend who's been in my life since before I had my kids. We used to date on and off. We only had sex maybe two or three times back then. Then we stopped dating when I got involved with my kids' father. That lasted about ten years, and this guy and I stayed friends. When I broke up with my kids' father, I went out with this friend about twice in the last two years, we only had sex once. My point is that I love being friends with this guy. When we hang out, he takes me to nice places, and we have a lot of fun. He doesn't pressure for me sex, and he never pushes me for a relationship. He's the kind of guy I can be friends with forever.
A Friend With Benefits

Katts's picture

i am a very private person so i wouldn't mind not being known. i have lived in the lime light and i am glad to be out of it so i would be very comfortable with that but no man including Trey gets to tell me what to do. if i see that me going somewhere or doing something really bothers him i would consider his feeling and stay away but no man rule this girl.

TEETIMME's picture

@Essence, I think u understand where Im coming from w this bc really, Id rather have him as a FRIEND FOR LIFE than as an EX-GIRLFRIEND!

NOW...if we do decide to be pursue a relationship, HED BETTER ACKNOWLEDGE me at some point, or its over, lol! Not acknowledging is a form of disrespect, which I WOULD NOT TOLERATE, and I think we can ALL agree on that!

TEETIMME's picture

"Essence711 says
(2 days ago)

I'd take being friends with benefits much better because that would be something special we shared between us, and no one has to know about that. But, if I'm SUPPOSED to be known, for example, if we had a kid together, no way in hell am I playing the chick in the background. Married or not, we'd be a family and that automatically qualifies me as the top chick in his life - after Mumma April - of course. Oh, and Grumma, too. THEN me!!
Well...come to think of it, he has two grandmothers, and some aunts who helped raise him, so it would be all of them, and THEN me!! And I'm not hiding in the background for anyone!!
Come to think of it, those aunts better be REAL aunts like his parents' sisters and such.
Let's not even go there with the rank OUR CHILD would have. I wish he would treat me like I'm the NANNY out in public... Trey Songz would become a Blues singer because all hell would break loose then.
Oh, like I was saying, being friends with benefits wouldn't be so bad for me. We're both grown so we should know what we're doing. He would HAVE to be single though. I don't want to be his mistress. Once you start there, you're stuck there."
I LAUGHED SO HARD WHEN I READ THIS, STILL LOLing!

IM TYPING IN CAPS TO STAND OUT, NOT TO YELL, REALLY, BC I WANT IT TO BE SEEN AND NOT OVERLOOKED...

THE REASON I SAID FWB IS BC THATS WHERE I AM IN MY LIFE RIGHT NOW! COMING FROM A BAD MARRIAGE, I DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP, AND SO IF ITS NOT A RELATIONSHIP ITS WHAT....A FRIENDSHIP. IF YOURE FRIENDS AND HAVE SEX ON A REGULAR BC U ARE SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE TO EACH OTHER, THEN WHATS THAT CALLED? THATS HOW IT WOULD BE W/ ME. I DONT WANT FAME, A "MAN",NONE OF THAT! NOW, TRUE, FEELINGS MAY DEVELOP, OR ONE MAY WANT MORE, BUT ITS UP TO THE COUPLE TO DISCUSS THE RELATIONSHIP GOING FURTHER. AS LONG AS THERES AN UNDERSTANDING, THERES NOTHING WRONG W/ THAT AND I, MYSELF, WOULDNT BE CONSIDERED A "PIECE OF ASS" BC REALLY, U CAN GET IT ANYWHERE!

kg.sunshine's picture

@Ariel - did not hear about the teen mom thing. Not surprised though. Those girls on that show are desperate for attention. I only go on LSA every blue moon or when someone directs me there. They all have strong feels about Trey - either they love him or hate him! :)

JesusIsMySavior's picture

I have been a member for a while but I don't frequent LSA too often. I did go to the Trey discussion to view what was said. :)

Ariel @COOGIdown's picture

@Linz84 I'm sure he knows. I've read like 20 DR's on him. Hella people throw shade like "c'mon Trey & camp... stop with all the same cookie cutter "hes amazing & big etc" stories!" lmao
Guess where MTO gets ALL (and I mean ALL) their "exclusive insider tips?" They straight copy & paste the incog posts like 3 days after they're posted. SMH. But I love it!!! Like... I saw on LSA that Amber from Teen Mom SE1 leaked nekkid pics of herself. Did you guys hear about that??

Linz84's picture

lol @ stlgirl4lyfe2010 and JesusisMySavior!

lol LSA got a few celebrity in trouble! Not too long ago Dwight Howard wanted to sue a LSA member for slandering his name. LSA always have the news first. lol I love LSA. I wonder if Trey knows about LSA? lol

JesusIsMySavior's picture

Now you are going to have me going to LSA. LOL

stlgirl4lyfe2010's picture

u all are on LSA me too lol

Linz84's picture

@Ariel LSA is the best!!! Yea those groupies love Trey! lol

V@lleyGurl's picture

Man this is an awesome topic!...everyone had some good points

My notes/answer to the question is...I'm torn!!! Me personally I couldn't date him..it's just wayyy to much that comes with that territory..but if I was..I'm a low key kind of person so I wouldn't want all the glam and red carpet kind of things anyway so I could be cool with the fact of him not announcing my name and going places..ya know things like that but on the flip side I see everyone as equal whether you have money or not...so that saying you single kind of deal not going to fly! boi you better claim me! lol...
Just remember...People..NOT just men...will do what they want to do regardless...so no matter if he says he's single has a gf or married...some people are just trifflin and don't have enough respect for themselves or others and titles DONT MATTER to them!

Ariel @COOGIdown's picture

@Linz84 yea I've been subscribed to that thread since I started... I've read it all. I've found out the BESTTTTT things on LSA about Trey. :) Those groupies got a THANG for Trey! GiGi crazy fa that. But.... she can do what she wants cuz shes "yo strippers favorite stripper."

Linz84's picture

Hey Ariel lol yea I can tell. lol the reason why because you talk about Fabolous was sleeping with some girl and told his girl to go some place elese. LMFAO!!! I remember hearing that on LSA. LOL thats why I ask! yea I saw that topic on Gigi and Trey! I don't know how Gigi can take naked pic with men and be comfortable! i can't do that! LOL ARIEL GO TO lsa website and click on the topic on Trey. Go to page 91. On page 91 some females claim that Trey was wildin on London! LOL

ladyt1980's picture

i luv me far 2 much 2 let any1 no matter how much i luv them 2 treat me w/ disrespect. if we r 2gether than we shudnt have 2 hide that. but i will respect that he is a public figure.

stlgirl4lyfe2010's picture

To me it's all about respect yes I know he has an image to uphold and if you are in a relationship with someone and you do not acknowledge them in any shape or form then how is it going to work. What you respect me in private but not in public so why date someone if you are not going to acknowledge the fact you are in a relationship I don't understand celebrities some damn time. Some of the stuff they do is dumb and this is one of the topics along with hiding kids.

freaky4trey739's picture

none of that would fly! above all he is still a man. and if u allow him to live like that u r only hurting yourself, not him!

Essence711's picture

I love all of the different views this discussion is bringing out. I've said it before - Trey has some very smart Angels.
I'm as obsessed with him as they come, and to be with him would be a dream come true for me. I'm just happy to see that no matter how much we love him, we wouldn't settle for less than we deserve.
If he were to read this, I think he'd respect each and every one of our comments.
Keep em coming Angels. lol

AsherRaine's picture

I don't think I could do it , if your embarrassed by me then why are we together . And I know you don't think you gonna disrespect me on a daily basis then gonna tell me wht I can and can't do , who I can and can't talk to, and better yet where I can and can't go . Lol I wish he would .

JesusIsMySavior's picture

I think the main reason that most celebrity couples break up is because they reveal too much information about their relationship.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

prittbrowniiz

I totally agree.

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