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    April 16, 2011

    I DONT KNOW ABOUT THE REST OF U ANGELS BUT I AM JUST SO TIRED OF THE BITTER AND NEGATIVE FEMALES ON HERE AND ON TWITTER! 

     

    I KNOW MOST OF U HAVE HEARD ABOUT THAT BROAD @ALLTRIGGASONME TALKING ABOUT SHE'S GOING TO LAUGH WHEN HIS PLANE CRASHES! FIRST OFF WHO SAYS SUM SICK SHIT LIKE THAT? AND SHE DOESNT LIKE HIM ANY MORE AND GOING TO UNFOLLOW HIM ALL BECAUSE HE PUT ON A BAD SHOW! RIGHT SHE MUST THINK PEOPLE ARE THAT STUPID! SHE IS MAD BECAUSE AS SHE STATED SHE TRIED TO GET HIS ATTENTION AND GOT NOTHING, THATS WHAT THAT IS ALL ABOUT! BECAUSE U CANT TELL ME UR THAT MAD BECASUE OF A BAD SHOW! JUST BECAUSE U WANNA GET SUMONES ATTENTION DOESNT MEAN UR GOING TO GET IT! SHE SHOULD BE MAD AT HER DAMN SELF! 

     

    ITS LIKE EVERYDAY I GET ON TWITTER ITS SUMTHING, SOMEBODY TALKIN ABOUT SUMONES TWITTER HANDLE, LIKE REALLY? C'MON SON!

    THEN THERE IS THE LITTLE BEEF THAT WAS GOING ON, ON THIS WEBSITE! IM LIKE DAMN MAN CAN I GET AWAY FROM ALL THE DRAMA? I JUST WANNA BE ABLE TO TALK TO MY ANGEL SISTERS ABOUT OUR COMMON BOND! OMG BUT I SEE IM GOING TO HAVE TO DISTANCE MYSELF BECAUSE ITS ALWAYS SUMTHING AND OBVIOUSLY I CANT DO TOO MUCH ABOUT IT!

     

    I DONT KNOW HOW MANY OF MY SISTERS FEEL THE SAME, BUT I AM DEFINITLEY TIRED OF IT! IM ABOUT TO BE A SOLO ANGEL CUZ I CANT TAKE THE DRAMA! IM A DRAMA AND STRESS FREE KIND OF WOMAN!

     

    LOVE MY ANGEL SISTERS XOXO

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TREYZONELOVE_2's picture
on Apr 16, 2011 - 12:58AM

I DONT KNOW ABOUT THE REST OF U ANGELS BUT I AM JUST SO TIRED OF THE BITTER AND NEGATIVE FEMALES ON HERE AND ON TWITTER! 

 

I KNOW MOST OF U HAVE HEARD ABOUT THAT BROAD @ALLTRIGGASONME TALKING ABOUT SHE'S GOING TO LAUGH WHEN HIS PLANE CRASHES! FIRST OFF WHO SAYS SUM SICK SHIT LIKE THAT? AND SHE DOESNT LIKE HIM ANY MORE AND GOING TO UNFOLLOW HIM ALL BECAUSE HE PUT ON A BAD SHOW! RIGHT SHE MUST THINK PEOPLE ARE THAT STUPID! SHE IS MAD BECAUSE AS SHE STATED SHE TRIED TO GET HIS ATTENTION AND GOT NOTHING, THATS WHAT THAT IS ALL ABOUT! BECAUSE U CANT TELL ME UR THAT MAD BECASUE OF A BAD SHOW! JUST BECAUSE U WANNA GET SUMONES ATTENTION DOESNT MEAN UR GOING TO GET IT! SHE SHOULD BE MAD AT HER DAMN SELF! 

 

ITS LIKE EVERYDAY I GET ON TWITTER ITS SUMTHING, SOMEBODY TALKIN ABOUT SUMONES TWITTER HANDLE, LIKE REALLY? C'MON SON!

THEN THERE IS THE LITTLE BEEF THAT WAS GOING ON, ON THIS WEBSITE! IM LIKE DAMN MAN CAN I GET AWAY FROM ALL THE DRAMA? I JUST WANNA BE ABLE TO TALK TO MY ANGEL SISTERS ABOUT OUR COMMON BOND! OMG BUT I SEE IM GOING TO HAVE TO DISTANCE MYSELF BECAUSE ITS ALWAYS SUMTHING AND OBVIOUSLY I CANT DO TOO MUCH ABOUT IT!

 

I DONT KNOW HOW MANY OF MY SISTERS FEEL THE SAME, BUT I AM DEFINITLEY TIRED OF IT! IM ABOUT TO BE A SOLO ANGEL CUZ I CANT TAKE THE DRAMA! IM A DRAMA AND STRESS FREE KIND OF WOMAN!

 

LOVE MY ANGEL SISTERS XOXO

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Tricia AKA @GimmeUnusual's picture

I understand @Treyzonelove! It is exhausting and I certainly appreciate you getting that off your chest. Hopefully its a start to bridging the love & respect between each other.

@Ariel - I don't know if it's necessarily jealousy - maybe in some occasions but I don't think in most cases. I'm not a jealous person. I am always happy to see anyone doing anything positive for themselves or others. I think more so it's a matter of trying to change how people think and what they say on here. That has to stop because we have to know that we all won't agree...it's how we handle it that has to get better. Arguments are won by evidence or persuasion. If I say something you don't like, persuade me with reason or by evidence to think differently. If I chose for whatever reason to think how I want to think, then that's all you can do is try to show me the light. I may be stubborn, blind or just dumb so don't waste your energy after your attempt. The one thing we can't do on here is try to change people. I'm too grown for anyone to try and change me, and I think most of us are. I'll listen to your reason as long as it comes to me in a genuine & constructive manner. I have been known to change my mind after persuasion :-) but very seldom is that the case.

So I'm sending out love right now to each of you!!! MUAH!!!!!

Ariel @COOGIdown's picture

When people stop trying to ONE up each other.... thats really when the bs will die down. Until then jealousy is always going to fuel negativity. You know?

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

Its not about everyine liking everything Trey does! Its just the negativity against one another and the bitterness just because u didnt get sumthing u THINK u deserve! That is all, I just needed to get that off my chest!

JesusIsMySavior's picture

Tricia AKA @GimmeUnusual:

I agree I know SShorty is a Trey fan. :) Yes it is unrealistic to expect everyone here to like everything Trey does. I think it makes a person more well balanced when they like more than one music artists. Michael was the first artists I have every loved musically, that is why his photo is on my background/icon on twitter

Tricia AKA @GimmeUnusual's picture

I also read the terms of use posted by Atlantic and they specifically said that they are not responsible for the comments or opinions left on this board. That frees them of lawsuits...so if for whatever reason people don't like the opinions of others left on this board (offense principle), they wouldn't be able to sue Atlantic...they'd have to file a lawsuit against that person personally. But again, winning lawsuits based on opinions & not actual "harm" is fairly difficult because they'd have to prove that their intent was malicious, that a lot of people were offended, that the offensive language happened over a long period of time, etc.

So basically people are still free to pretty much say what they want to say on here. We just have to use our own personal judgment as to what is acceptable and what is not, and even if we don't agree with what is said, we have to learn to move on from the post and not make the situation worse by arguing with someone. We all have different morals (what we believe to be right & wrong). What is wrong to you may not be wrong to me, so instead of trying to beat "Your Right" (and I don't mean YOU per say - everybody) just express your opinion and keep it moving. At times you may be able to persuade people to see your point-of-view, but other times you may not and that is okay.

So honey don't worry about the negativity or arguing...it will happen. All you can do is decide how you're going to respond to it. Don't internalize it. :-)

Love You Angel Sis - sorry this was so long. LOL
Trish

Tricia AKA @GimmeUnusual's picture

@Treyzonelove - You have a lot of different personalities here and everyone is not going to agree with everything that others say. When I first joined the board just like many of you I was shocked at some of the things SShorty said. After a while I learned that I can't change what she says and either I can argue her up & down about it, put in my 2 cents about it with respect, or keep it moving. What I can say about SShorty is that she knows how to get a conversation started and I can't be mad at her about that. I think if you look at her posts from an unbiased point of view that you can see that she is a fan, just maybe not to the extent we are. It's nothing wrong with that. She listens to his music, she buys his albums & she votes for him in respective categories. What more can we ask of her? I think everyone looks at this board as though it should be all love 24/7 but that's unrealistic. We all are not going to like EVERYTHING about Trey & I think it is okay to express that here. It's artists I loved way before Trey and some artists I will chose to see in concert over Trey, such as Joe, Babyface, or Ginuwine. Loved them wayyyyyy before Trey ever stepped on the scene. And my all time fav artist is Michael Jackson. No one else can ever fill his shoes.

I know some people have been talking about censorship; however, censoring websites is very difficult. I did a lot of research to see if my comments which were supposed to be humorous conflicted with any rules anywhere. What I found that can semi limit freedom of speech are the "harm" and "offense" principles - which are still NOT LAW b/c the degree of offense varies. While most who read what I said laughed, only one person took it offensively. As a result, intent, # of ppl offended, & duration will all be taken into consideration & the only thing in the U.S. that can be done is a civil suit. So again, there are no concrete LAWS to limit freedom of speech unless there is a blatant threat. Opinions are fine.

TreysQuietAngel's picture

@ pritTbrowniiz Love your comment. No need for me to say anything because you said it all! :)

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

@numba1hon Thats exactly what SShorty does! And Im sure the money did, who is goin to lose millions over what sum random person says? Not me, lol!

shrtyslim02's picture

i agree with u

SplendidAngel's picture

I agree. But, I have learned to ignore this situation. Just chill with the calmer angels and let the wilder angels do them.

Numba1Hon's picture

I don't think the flag does anything except send an e-mail message to the posters mailbox. There is a report and issue button down at the bottom next to the Terms of Use button. I don't want to do that. I would rather we handle it before Atlantic does because they might object to more than the blogs that are upsetting people and it might not be any fun to come on the board anymore. You are right about Tremaine learning self control. He learned real quick too. I bet you all that money had a lot to do with it. I don't usually have a problem unless my buttons are really pushed about something. I took a course and I know how people can be manipulated to fight among themselves by just receiving bits and pieces of information. I never saw such fighting and crying and tranquilizer popping in my whole life. It was a very revealing experience. It made you physically sick. This board is definitely sick. Other training taught me that the person who is at the root of its usually is sitting around calm and collected or disappears after doing the dirty work while the other people are left annihilating one another. I did not come on here for that so I persisted and finally found what I was looking for.

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

@numba1hon U can also flag a discussion or particular comment! I hope that helps some!

Numba1Hon's picture

No one believed me when I said that certain opinions are not acceptable on the board, but look at the Term of Use in the brown bar at the bottom of each page. I have been searching high and low and just found that today. Atlantic's legal department put that together. All this time people have been subjected to negativity for nothing. Because the rules are plain as day. I am surprised no one knew about this or mentioned this agreement earlier. I did not remember seeing it before. If we don't handle this ourselves than Atlantic will have to deal with a lot of indivduals besides me. I think we should start with deleting some of the offensive and objectionable posts and blogs. How many of you agree?

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

Not only did I unfollow people but I got a whole new twitter because I was following way too many people! Im just speaking on my emotions because the stuff that is going on is so ignorant and I try to ignore it but everytime I log in its sumthing new, like OMG!

And I agree with what everyone is saying and I already know how to handle it! Just needed to express my feelings is all! Because I know everyone has an opinion and people are going to be ignorant and negative regardless, but I just wish they would think before they speak.

@numba1hon ur welcome!

Numba1Hon's picture

@Treyzonelove. I am trying to persuade the Angels to have rules. I got caught up in mess as you know because I could not take the negativity. I responded to your post and I really did appreciate your support when you first gave it, but forgot to thank you. I indicate today why I partially agree and partially disagree/ If you don't want to do anything to effect change then you may have to unfollow a lot of people on Twitter or else try to do something about it. I think by passing legislation, things will change. I think the internet has grown faster than the body of laws that regulate it. I will probably put up a post about legislation later when things calm down. On this website, it looks like the best thing to do is not comment unless you are going to be neutral or unless you say something that does not fan the flames on either side of the conflict. Once you get in it. It is possible that something being said will upset you.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

Prittbrowniiz BestSellerAngel's picture

I didn't even know until now that, that's what was said about him. I saw some people on twitter that I follow fired up about what this chick said, but I never knew what it was. Her comment means nothing to me. Trey means a lot and all I can do is continue to pray for his safe travels and returns.

It really is about who you are following on there. I have fun on twitter for the most part. I thank God that I haven't had any of these experiences that some you have had and it's a shame but the truth of the matter is there are always going to be some negative people who will ALWAYS have something to say. The only thing you can do is be responsible for yourself. This is something that I've had to learn over the years. No one likes to be talked about, put down, belittled etc. and if you continue to feed into hate and things of that nature you'll be dealing with and stressing over that battle your whole life.

We all have a choice we can make. It's what you decide to do with yours that's gonna make the difference. Me personally I see all the drama on here and I don't like it just like the next person, but you can't change what you have no control over. I have no control over the words that comes out of someone else's mouth. I only can control what comes out of my own. So if I read negativity I'm not going to fuel it by adding my two cents. There mind and perception is already made up. My words will only make it continue to go back and fourth. Who wants that? My motto is like Jay-Z "ON TO THE NEXT ONE" I pick and chose what topics I want to speak on. I respect everyone's opinions and views even though I may not agree with them. But I'm not going to fight a battle that I know I'm not going to win. Especially on here. Now if I'm equipped than that's another story, but that's not the case.

All I can say about the drama is there's no avoiding it. Life is full of drama. It's how you handle it that makes you better for it or no better than the rest. Handle ur biz how u c fit.

Ariel @COOGIdown's picture

Shes sick....
But really? I laughed when I read what she typed. MOVING ON!!!!! Ignore her ass. People who say things like that get things to come their way. Karmas already in effect. :)
And the whole twitter thing.... I found theres this awesome button called Unfollow. It works wonders.... I dont have to even see the BS, and I never have to even waste my time on negativity. Just like @TreyDee says.

So... if you think that approach is too much... go head... distance yourself. The only one missing out will be you.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

That is disgusting. Why in the world would you laugh at someone’s plane crashing? Horrible! I don’t care how bad Trey performed at a show or didn’t pay me attention I would never want harm to him. All I know is we better stay prayed up so that will not happen. I truly am not a big fan of Twitter I do go there daily but I don’t stay on it long. Thankful for the most part the people I follow are pretty normal.

But I’m sick of the bitterness too, there should be no reason for people to not get along here or on Twitter we’re suppose to be fans of Trey and we should be cool with each other not going at each other over petty things.

TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

@TreyDee I know but its so annoying because its always something stupid! Smh I ignore it for the most part but its like damn ya'll chill out sumtimes! Anywho I know what I need to do!

Oh and ol' gurl was just a hot mess! Just mad cuz Trey didnt pay her no mind! I just couldnt believe what I was reading! Smh

TreyDee's picture

yea I seen the drama on my tl but I don't put my two cents in stuff like that cause its a waste of time. There is always going to be drama no matter what. But I see where you coming from. Just ignore her. She wants attention and if she unfollows Trey she wasn't a fan from the get go. That's her lost nobody else. Trey will still live and he has a billion more fans left. Shoot if she don't want to be follow by Trey I will be happy to take her spot. Drama on here and Twitter is entertainment to me.

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