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  • Angels with Perfect Imperfections
    July 23, 2011

    So I have a 17 year old sister who is beautiful in more ways than 1. Living in todays society with all the music videos, models, magazines, makeup prducts. My sister is now thinking  that she needs plastic sugery and I mean major. She is thinking Nose lips and and possibly chin reconstruction. I tried to tell her that her imperfections are what make her perfect. I have yet to see what is wrong with her but maybe I am biased...Angels I would like to know some of your perfect imperfections. I will even tell my own...I have what docs call a "deviated eye muscle". basically I have a lazy eye the left 1. It's only noticeable to jerks that I'd never speak to in my most drunken state...LMAO.  I've been offered surgery and many diff cosmetic procedures to have this corrected but why? I am fine just as I am and I LOVE me. So are u willing to tell some of your perfect imperfections?

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Vida Babii's picture
on Jul 23, 2011 - 02:31PM

So I have a 17 year old sister who is beautiful in more ways than 1. Living in todays society with all the music videos, models, magazines, makeup prducts. My sister is now thinking  that she needs plastic sugery and I mean major. She is thinking Nose lips and and possibly chin reconstruction. I tried to tell her that her imperfections are what make her perfect. I have yet to see what is wrong with her but maybe I am biased...Angels I would like to know some of your perfect imperfections. I will even tell my own...I have what docs call a "deviated eye muscle". basically I have a lazy eye the left 1. It's only noticeable to jerks that I'd never speak to in my most drunken state...LMAO.  I've been offered surgery and many diff cosmetic procedures to have this corrected but why? I am fine just as I am and I LOVE me. So are u willing to tell some of your perfect imperfections?

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@iamSHEA's picture

I agree with everyone people have said already. I have my flaws and so do these models that seem to be praised in today's society. Makeup does WONDERS. And some of the people who have already gotten cosmetic surgery express how they dislike their results or go back more and more in attempt to fix what was fine to begin with. Long story short, none of it is needed. She is beautiful as is.

TreyDee's picture

my imperfect perfections is the fact that I have acne and I wish I had junk in the trunk if you know what I mean..lol. Other than that I love everything else about me. On another note,I hope your sister do not go through the plastic surgery. GOD make her that way for a reason and I hope she love herself soon. I agree with all of the comments under mine!!!

ladinicole87@gmail.com's picture

I would tell your sister she does not need surgery. A good example of a bad surgery is heidi from the hills. She was beautiful before all that plastic surgery and now she looks nothing like before. Like someone below said its all about SELF-ESTEEM!!!! My perfect imperfection has been with me since birth. I have a disability that causes me to wear leg braces. Sometimes I ask God why did he let this happen to me but I'm reminded of it could be worse. So you tell your sister she is beautiful and get her self-esteem up. When she walks in places walk with her head held high, shoulders back and with a stride like she is the stuff and she knows it. She doesn't need all that plastic surgery.

CutTiGurl609's picture

Your welcome. I wrote a song back in December for a tv show's contest and its about knowing how beautiful you are in your own unique way. Here's the link to the video I think it is appropriate for this discussion topic. I hope you guys like it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n2313fY5iSw

Oh and excuse the nasally vocals it was December and I was sick.

Vida Babii's picture

I wanna say thank u to all of my angel sisters that took time to reply to this. I want my sister to kw that she is beautiful in her own skin. No matter what u see on the magazine or TV. That isll an illusion. When those girls undress and wash their faces they don't look like that. I would like hear more of angel imperfections. I really love the responses. Thank u ladies.

I_Belong_2Songz's picture

I agree 100% i always tell people ur imprefections make u unique!!!...my imperfection is my blotchy skin i dont wear make up or anthing to hide it because i luv the skin im in.....hopefully ur sister will soon realize that true beauty comes from within!!!

hpcmichelle@msn.com's picture

I almost forgot my imperfections are I hate being short I'm only 5ft tall and sometimes wish I was taller but with age now i'm fine being short and if i could change anything else i'd lose about 20 pounds but thats something i can change but until then i'm fine being me short and fabulous!

hpcmichelle@msn.com's picture

WOW I hope your sister just going thru a phase as we all do with imperfections but surgery is not the answer.She i s lacking self esteem which is why I always say we need more mentors for our younger Angels.She needs to sit in front a mirror and seriously look herself and realize she is beautiful inside and out.I think alot of it is age and she's looking at the media's idea of beauty but until she loves herself nothing we say or do is going to change her opinion. I pray she embraces what makes unique and beautiful. Keep being your sisters champion and celebrate her. I wish her well and if she needs to talk or get a different perspective I'm here and she can contact me @mrscvs_VaAngels & hpcmichelle@msn.com

CutTiGurl609's picture

I was once like your sister. I never believed in plastic surgery but I hated things about me just as much. I've been told that I look weird. I have big lips, big cheeks, a long face, and a long neck. I absolutely hated my profile and I struggled with my weight. I always thought that my lack of friends and male attention was due to me being so unattractive. As I got older I realized that weird just meant different and all of those things about myself are beautiful and makes me unique. I look back on pics from when I thought I was ugly and now think that I was just crazy for ever thinking I was ever ugly. I now know that my lack of friends and attention from boys had to do with my lack of self esteem and confidence, not my looks.

Tell your sister that as long as she thinks those things about her are ugly, they will be. Tell her to look in the mirror and say "yes my nose is wide but it matches the width of my mouth perfectly."

JesusIsMySavior's picture

mii_sunflower:

I agree@i really hope she does not go get plastic surgery if she never happy with her self then its nothing a doc can fix

mii_sunflower's picture

am 23 and somtime time i still can feel this way, and the music videos, models, and mag dont help but at the end of the day i know am great.

uuuum i think this is a great idea sooo my imperfections are am wayyyyyyy to tall am like 6"2 with any hells or anything, my hair i hate it, and somtimes i wish i was a little light

i really hope she does not go get plastic sugery if she never happy with her self then its nothing a doc can fix

JesusIsMySavior's picture

Wow I'm sadden that your sister thinks poorly of herself. I think we all suffer from feeling a little self conscience it's normal. At times do we look in the mirror and feel not so great about what we see yes but what I think we have to do is not dwell on what we don't like about ourselves. What we may find as unattractive someone else will find it to be beautiful.

I understand how your sister feels when viewing what she sees in the entertainment industry. It seems like the lighter your skin is or the smaller your features are the more you are excepted. When I was growing up it seemed like the more natural you were the more beautiful you were perceived. Now it seems that the more fake you are the better and that is truly sad.

What man sees as imperfection God sees them as perfection. God didn't make any mistakes when he created us.

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