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    March 12, 2012

    On this past weekend, I attended the Anticipation2tour in Southaven, Ms. It was EPIC, it was one of the best concerts that I had been to in Years. The people in general from this area and Memphis were Awesome! BUT, a problem that I had was with our "so called Angel SISTAHOOD" that I have seen some call it! I wore my Angel shirt because I am a Trey's Angel and I support him in all that he does, as well as some of you. But when I sat down all I got was stares. I don’t think I am a mean person and for the most part I smiled the whole time I was there. I am very shy (and that’s no one’s fault but mine) and I wanted to walk up to you (angels) and speak but was afraid that I would not get a response, (going off the vibe I got with the stares). During the concert, these were the same women who barely knew the words to Trey’s songs. To make a long story short, I feel as angels, we should do more to not only support Trey but one another. It made me feel like there were clicks and if you didn’t look a certain way or if they didn’t know you, you were not going to get the same treatment. Honestly I wish I could get my money back for joining this club and continue to support Trey and do community service like I was doing before I signed up. I guess I was looking for too much from “TreysAngels”!

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TreysNewestAngel1's picture
on Mar 12, 2012 - 12:23PM

On this past weekend, I attended the Anticipation2tour in Southaven, Ms. It was EPIC, it was one of the best concerts that I had been to in Years. The people in general from this area and Memphis were Awesome! BUT, a problem that I had was with our "so called Angel SISTAHOOD" that I have seen some call it! I wore my Angel shirt because I am a Trey's Angel and I support him in all that he does, as well as some of you. But when I sat down all I got was stares. I don’t think I am a mean person and for the most part I smiled the whole time I was there. I am very shy (and that’s no one’s fault but mine) and I wanted to walk up to you (angels) and speak but was afraid that I would not get a response, (going off the vibe I got with the stares). During the concert, these were the same women who barely knew the words to Trey’s songs. To make a long story short, I feel as angels, we should do more to not only support Trey but one another. It made me feel like there were clicks and if you didn’t look a certain way or if they didn’t know you, you were not going to get the same treatment. Honestly I wish I could get my money back for joining this club and continue to support Trey and do community service like I was doing before I signed up. I guess I was looking for too much from “TreysAngels”!

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Lawhornsymone's picture

I'm sorry that your experince was like that, it's true there are some cliques and nasty Angels but it is a large group of women so sadly, there's bound to be drama. We are working on being more united, but some people just don't want to. However, there are a plethora of Angels, like myself, who welcome & embrace all and cherish the sisterhood. Don't let some bad ones taint your perspective of all the Angels, some of these ladies are now my best friends & I met them by becoming an Angel. If you're on Twitter, follow me @akaSymone and I'll introduce you to some people or add me on Facebook Symone C. Lawhorn

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(Cont'd) Confidence is a magnet. It is the main personality trait that draws other people to you. It gives you the fortitude to remain centered (at peace) in the face of challenges. Without it, you will often find yourself in a state of self doubt, stopped and paralyzed from doing things, feeling anxious and helpless. All kinds of neurotic things start going on. How can you become less shy and more confident? Focus on what is causing it and aggressively do something about it. Take action and risks. Preparation, practice and experience hold the key. This means you have to stretch and become READY. You have to figure out what are your particular strengths and talents are and make sure you have developed them. Find a way to strengthen your weaknesses. Make a list. Find information about interpersonal and group relationships and how to deal with people effectively and how to handle your emotions. There is a lot of material on the internet and a lot of books that can help. You could also find a mentor---somebody that you trust, respect and admire because of their GOOD qualities and successes. Seek their opinions about different things. In the end, you will be happier and have less emotional turmoil, and you won’t be worried about some stuck-up Angels who could have at least smiled and said hello

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(cont'd) I used to be very shy and I can tell you about it. Most people feel shy at some time or another. When you are shy, your thoughts are focused inwards towards thinking about yourself. It makes you self-consciousness. You start second guessing and doubting yourself. Sometimes it’s so bad you will feel stupid and start acting like it. You are never good enough for your own self and you start seeking other people’s approval and acceptance in an unhealthy manner. This happens when you are not well prepared or equipped to handle many of life’s challenges. In contrast, when you are equipped and prepared, your thoughts will focus outwards away from yourself and you will not be inhibited. You will be self-confident.

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If your assessment is correct, this is a shame, but it is a fact of life, some people are going to like you and want to be in your company and others will not. No matter where you go (the church, your job, a party, the club, a sisterhood) you will never be able to escape this. The only thing you can do is control yourself. It could be that SHYNESS is causing you to feel alienated and so adversely affected by this.

SplendidAngel's picture

I agree with you. There are cliques within the different Trey's Angels. It's not cool. I wish there was something that could be done about it. But, I don't know who can and will do it. So, I try to speak to as many angels that are willing to tweet or speak back to me.

TreysNewestAngel1's picture

Cool Thanks @ScreamJessy

Scream Jessy's picture

I know it was a bad experience, but you cannot let that one incident make you feel like you do not want to be part of the club. I just join the club and I don't know anybody in the club, but I can assure you there are some good angels. I'm shy too so I know the feeling. But at the end of the day, we are all here to support Trey. Much love, and if you're in the NYC are, I live here.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

You're welcome. :)

MsSweetSkittleAngel's picture

Thanks love anytime you are ever in the tri-state area look me up I rather show you better then I can tell you.

TreysNewestAngel1's picture

Thanks JIMS for the confirmation :=)

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@TreysNewestAngel1: You are correct MsSweetSkittleAngel is genuine. She is a very nice young lady. :)

TreysNewestAngel1's picture

@MsSweetskittleAngel, that felt so genuine. usually you can feel when someone is full of it, but I felt like you were really genuine. Honestly I felt like everyone that responded was genuine! Thank you for your words of encouragement and the heads up on Trey.

MsSweetSkittleAngel's picture

At the end of the day you have good Angels and Bad angels you already kno who your bad angels are so stay far away from them I kno u are shy when I started I didn't kno any of the Angels in NJ so I went to NYC and I got to meet some angels who I love some who I keep far away but we all come together for trey I have one angel who I go everywhere with you see me you see her and trey call us trouble one and two lol but he kno us by our faces but I'm just saying just get one angels sister you can link up with and you will be fine or go by yourself even thought I hang out with one angels all the time I make sure I call my other sisters and check on them to see if they need me or what the plan for the next mission but if u don't have no angel sister then I'll be your sister cuz I care and I don't want you to stop being a angel becuz of them

MsSweetSkittleAngel's picture

Hey love I'm sorry that happen to you but you have to understand you are dealing with a bunch of women who want to sleep with trey have his babies the whole nine yards lmao that's crazy but don't stop being a angel becuz of them becuz that's what they want you to do less angels more time they get to spend with him let me tell you something Trey love his Angels he light up when he see us and trust me I would kno first hand but that story is for another time you have Angels all over who don't act like that forget them chick heads lmao maybe you look better then them and they are jealous of you Always Remember one thing you didn't join treys angels for them you are doing this for Trey so keep being a Angel support him cuz he see everything always remember whatever trey do for you keep it to yourself don't tell nobody I have stories but nobody kno my twitter is @sexynene2007 I'm a jersey angel all day everyday

MsAshleyBabii's picture

@TREYSNEWESTANGEL1 :)

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@TreysNewestAngel1: Yes spread the word about this site. :)

I'm glad you came to the realization that the only approval you truly need is from God. Mankind will always disappoint you but God will never disappoint you. :)

TreysNewestAngel1's picture

Hey@Sheree-Renee thanks.

Sheree_Renee's picture

Awww....I hate u feel that way. I attended the Southaven show as well and believe me I am all for meeting fellow Angels. I can assure u I wasnt one of the ones giving u nasty looks...I probably would have came and introduced myself and made u follow me on twitter...lol. This show was the first one where I actually met some Angels personally and the ones I met were lovely. As far as clicks..I do feel that there are a lot of those within the Angels....some just get along better than others. I get along with everyone though...I definitely feel the Angels should be a sisterhood and no one should be treated any different from another. Hopefully your next experience is a better one.

Follow me @Sheree_Renee (I do follow back)

TreysNewestAngel1's picture

@MsMatara, I realized after reading the word this morning, that the only person that I should be wanting to get approval from is God! (after the fact) I saw that I was trying to get the approval from "some" people who did not care if I spoke to them or followed them on twitter. Like you I will put my best foot forward and step out on faith because people are going to be who they are regardless and everybody is not going to accept us when we feel they should. I will continue to go hard for TREY and do my Angel duties regardless if someone accepts me or not. There are alot of nice angels out there like the ladies who have previously posted mentioned and I will accept them whether its on twitter, on this website or in person. This is way more than a fan club, this is a movemen like@ MsAshleyBabii said.

Ms Matara's picture

Heey I agree with you tht there are sm Angels tht arent as friendly bt jus killm with kindness. I was shy too and nvr really talkd to any Angels til I got my courage up, put my best foot foward and steppd out on faith. Jus to find out tht they were harmless.

TreysNewestAngel1's picture

that's a good idea @Tricia about gettting the cd's.

@JIMS I know 2 for sure I just have to find more, But I will get em! There are alot of people that don't know about this website. I will have to find away to let them know about it.

Tricia AKA @GimmeUnusual's picture

@TreysNewestAngel1 - For real tho? I think you should go ahead and pay for my membership then...we can be friends. LOLOL

But honestly, that is a great idea. I've bought extra Trey CDs and gave them out just to spread the love for him. Paying for memberships is another excellent idea.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@TreysNewestAngel1: Right if you can't befriend some angels hang out with those that are just as supportive of Trey as you are. Recruiting new angels is an excellent way to meet new people. :)

TreysNewestAngel1's picture

@ JIMS I just may have to do that. Or find some ladies who will go hard for Trey and Loves him just as much as we do and get them to join. Maybe even pay for them to be an angel!

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@Cuttigurl609: I'm glad and thank you. :)

@Tricia: Thanks sis. :)

I will say I have met some angels with interesting personalities but as a whole I have meet in person some really wonderful people. I also interact with some wonderful Angels online. Perhaps you can start a meet or greet with some Angels in your area so you can get to know each other.

TreysNewestAngel1's picture

I am very thankful for all of your comments. when this happened I felt like I was an outsider to this fan club, but I see now that there are alot of GREAT angels out there! Thanks again Ladies!

CutTiGurl609's picture

@JesusIsMySavior No not u. Of course you were one of the nice Angels.

SongzHeartbeat's picture

i went to the one in atl and was like the only one in my area that knew the words,hype,etc.i went by myself to the concert and i had a ball BY MYSELF!however,its not the ones at the concert its the ones on twitter i have an issue with.not necessarily the older ladies but the younger ones.but i chalk it up to their age.some think they are celebs themselves or some shat.lol. in the words of Trey "Keep the dream alive".i have met some very nice ladies tho so its not a complete bust.

Tricia AKA @GimmeUnusual's picture

@TreysNewestAngel1 - Essence711 hit it right on the nail. In life you will definitely run into some nice people and some "not so" nice people. Please know that there are a bunch of very sweet Angels here. I have met some wonderful people through Trey's Angels and some that will be in my life forever (including my Sister on here @JesusIsMySavior).

I would love to be your friend. My twitter is @GimmeUnusual

plumplips77078's picture

hey hun, i agree with other girls, do let anybody steal your happiness we all come to the concerts to support trey and what he does, do let anyone make you regret anything that you believe in or have a strong passion for. if you need me just comment on my page, it was nice talking to you and be blessed!!!!!

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