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    March 13, 2012

    I can honestly say that I have always been extremely proud of Trey Songz but yesterday he truly and deeply hurt me.

    He took a DM that someone sent to him about how upset they were about not getting acknowledged after the poster they made for him, and he tweeted it out and included "#Entitlement" to that tweet. I did not send him that DM...I repeat...I DID NOT SEND HIM THAT DM; however, I know the person who did. She is an extremely sweet person, and she goes soooooo hard for Trey. She was in tears all day after Trey outted her and then unfollowed her. On top of that, she was receiving nasty tweets from it.

    I DM'd Trey to tell him that she didn't mean any harm, that she loves him, that we all do, and to please give her another chance. I guess Trey didn't appreciate me DM'ing him about her - guess he was really pissed at her, so he unfollowed me too.

    Now I know it's just a follow - it doesn't pay my bills on anything like that, but it was special. It meant a lot to me. The fact that I was the 800 & something person that he followed back in 2010 was extremely special. I was in his top 1000 people that he followed. Additionally, I worked hard for that follow. I stood from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. in stillettos getting emails from people so we can send them emails to become a Trey's Angel. I can never get that back...soley because I wanted to help another Angel.

    I went from being hurt to angry with Trey. Angry because he didn't DM me back and say, "Stay out of it." Instead he just unfollowed me...with no explanation. The other thing that bothered me is that this was a fan that was upset about something, rather he agreed or not, she was still a fan...rocking w/ him since 2005 and taking the time to create a poster for him. She loved him and he made her cry all day on her birthday. He should've DM'd her about it...not put it on Twitter to have other Angels attacking her. Then to not be receptive to criticism (which is what she supplied in her DM) was just wrong. If you can't take criticism from the ones who love you...who can you take it from? Then to unfollow me...an Angel with a HEART...was so disappointing. I solely wanted to help another Angel & let him know she meant no harm. Why was my punishment an unfollow that I worked so hard for. I don't understand and I am extremely hurt by Trey. I am still a fan, I will always be and I convinced her to forgive him as well. I'm in the situation so it's a lot more sensitive to me...maybe I'm wrong. What do you think?

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Tricia AKA @GimmeUnusual's picture
on Mar 13, 2012 - 10:33PM

I can honestly say that I have always been extremely proud of Trey Songz but yesterday he truly and deeply hurt me.

He took a DM that someone sent to him about how upset they were about not getting acknowledged after the poster they made for him, and he tweeted it out and included "#Entitlement" to that tweet. I did not send him that DM...I repeat...I DID NOT SEND HIM THAT DM; however, I know the person who did. She is an extremely sweet person, and she goes soooooo hard for Trey. She was in tears all day after Trey outted her and then unfollowed her. On top of that, she was receiving nasty tweets from it.

I DM'd Trey to tell him that she didn't mean any harm, that she loves him, that we all do, and to please give her another chance. I guess Trey didn't appreciate me DM'ing him about her - guess he was really pissed at her, so he unfollowed me too.

Now I know it's just a follow - it doesn't pay my bills on anything like that, but it was special. It meant a lot to me. The fact that I was the 800 & something person that he followed back in 2010 was extremely special. I was in his top 1000 people that he followed. Additionally, I worked hard for that follow. I stood from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. in stillettos getting emails from people so we can send them emails to become a Trey's Angel. I can never get that back...soley because I wanted to help another Angel.

I went from being hurt to angry with Trey. Angry because he didn't DM me back and say, "Stay out of it." Instead he just unfollowed me...with no explanation. The other thing that bothered me is that this was a fan that was upset about something, rather he agreed or not, she was still a fan...rocking w/ him since 2005 and taking the time to create a poster for him. She loved him and he made her cry all day on her birthday. He should've DM'd her about it...not put it on Twitter to have other Angels attacking her. Then to not be receptive to criticism (which is what she supplied in her DM) was just wrong. If you can't take criticism from the ones who love you...who can you take it from? Then to unfollow me...an Angel with a HEART...was so disappointing. I solely wanted to help another Angel & let him know she meant no harm. Why was my punishment an unfollow that I worked so hard for. I don't understand and I am extremely hurt by Trey. I am still a fan, I will always be and I convinced her to forgive him as well. I'm in the situation so it's a lot more sensitive to me...maybe I'm wrong. What do you think?

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Essence711's picture

As for what I said about his fans being expendabe to him, I don't thhink that we should be. I'm not talking about those who don't give a damn whether Trey is on top or not. I was talking about those who do care, Angels or non Angels. No celebrity can say that the people who love and support them and go hard for them are expendable. Let the haters be expendable. And just because you disagree with someone you love, it doesn't mean you're a hater.
I can say that I don't like what Trey did, and I still love him the same. I just don't want to feel like I have to walk on egg shells for him just because he's a celebrity and I'm his fan. If he ever follows me on twitter, I don't want him to unfollow me just because I may say somethhing to him that he doesn't like. He doesn't apologize for his actions, so he should be able to take it when someone else is just expressing themselves in a non threatening way.

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@Tricia Thank you, because all I have been saying is what you said - he made you feel special by following you, then he hurt you by unollowing you. Whatever his reasons were, they were his, but I still don't understand them. I probably never will, but you forgive him, and that's what's important because it happened to you. I still admire you for that. I hope that I'm able to forgive him if he ever does something that hurts me personally.
I really do love Trey and I respect him. I can see how he loves his fans and he appreciates them, but that's why I got so confused and I expressed my opinions about this subject. Because he is who he is and he knows he has so much power, I don't think it's right to say something or do something to sweep you off of your feet, then because you make the mistake of being yourself around him, you have to pay with such dire consequences.
To everyone who thinks that I was saying mean or negative things about Trey, I'm sorry you feel that way. I just don't want to start looking at him like he's the type of person who switches up on you, depending on his mood. I'm sensitive and I tend to back away from people who throw shade my way. Others have the right to be who they are, but I don't have to stand around and take their shit.
As for him being a celebrity, he started all the "letting us into his world" stuff. he spoiled us to a point and we want what he's been giving us. I understand he's only human, but as a fellow human, he should understand that our mistakes should be forgiven too.
Oh and I never said that only his Angels are his true fans. I mentioned the word fans more times than I said Angels because I was referring to EVERYBODY who enjoys Trey, whether it's for his music, looks or whatever. BUT, he did give the impression that we - the ANGELS - are supposed to be a little bit more special. All I was saying is that he shouldn't have unfollowed an Angel, especially since she wasn't being malicious toward him.

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As far as Trey being a grown man and free to follow & unfollow whoever he wants, that's a mute point...we all know that. We all know he is able to do whatever he wants *starts singing Bobby Brown's it's my prerogative...I can do what I wanna do...* LOL But even though he can...doesn't mean he always should. Unfollowing fans for something which in essence is extremely small (upset about not being acknowledged) is not something that should happen; however, it is very forgivable. I am truly much better than I was when I originally posted this thread. With time the sting becomes almost unnoticeable. She is in a better place as well. I know Trey does his very best and crap just happens. This is a, "shit just happens" type of thing.

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Thanks SexySagLuvSongz my fellow Sag sis!!! I am doing absolutely fine. My HEALTHY love for Trey is unconditional. And I emphasize healthy because someone mentioned loving Trey to death. Anyone that really knows me know that my hubby 24/7 is Lance Gross. That is the man of my millennium...me love him! I love and support Trey for his music...understanding that he is human and things are bound to irritate him to the point that he makes choices that not everyone agrees with.

At no time was I ever defending her DM. I equally thought it was wrong and demanded too much of him. But knowing her - I know her heart, which is why all I said to him was that she meant no harm. She loves you, we all do. Please give her another chance. That was my DM to him. I don't see that as a reason to unfollow but that is my opinion as my Sis @PrittBrowniiz has said. We are all entitled to our own opinions. In my opinion the unfollow of me was too harsh. Him unfollowing her is another story. He may feel justified...I can't fault him for that. She hurt his feelings. I get that, but I still believe he could have handled it better.

@Essence I'm not offended by anything you have said and I certainly want you to feel free to express whatever you are feeling. I certainly agree with you, but I do feel as though Trey values us as fans. I just think his anger got the best of him which is why I would love to talk to him more about it. I want him to personally know from me that I know he goes above & beyond for his fans and to know that I appreciate what he does.

Many ppl have been saying that fans have high demands...yes, the lady who DM'd him had too high of demands for him. Some do, but not all. Some of us realize he is only one man and we appreciate what he does. Its just like those that keep telling Trey to UStream...the man needs a break. So many of us are guilty for wanting a lot of him. It's natural but Trey knows how to say NO...he does, and he will.

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awwwww.....Trisha I'm so sorry!! Hopefully he will see this and realize that maybe he overreacted. you and the other angel keep ua heads up!! : ) #angellove

MsNeversonSongz ❀◕‿◕❀'s picture

U know What i think as i said it before b|c they are celebrities fans expect high demands of them which ain't kool there are just in tha spotlight he a normal person too alot of people thinking too deep like what if or trey was in a bad mood no one knows how many times this have happened he didn't have to be upset to unfollow people maybe there are just being negative and no one likes negativity around them as humans in general some of us let what others have to say affect us its soo important some of us try to please people but as for trey he knows why he unfollowed people as i said before if trey follows us we take it very special and cherish it but hey look if u say ur a true fan why are u gonna let ya mind wonder and think negative about him u can feel a lil sad but dont start sayin negative against him as a angel said before we angels arent tha only who support trey w|o us tha fans angels or not he couldnt be here plus alot of us only become angels just to say were angels and prolly dont even know much about trey he treats his fans equally show us all tha same love not b|c u dont get hs attention u gonna be negative and say stuff from what i see trey unfollwoing ppl has become a big deal i see people sayin mean stuff and taking it too far as i will still say trey does what he want and if he unfollows a fan and yall gonna think that aint cool or hes mean and thats harsh so be it fans come fans go thats how i look at it may sound mean but its tha truth wether he been done make it trey is very appreciative of everything that he has hes not ungrateful hes always supporting his fans in tha best way he can

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@Essence711: He's actions are a bit confusing, but like I said we just don't know what his mental state was when he did it. I don't believe at all that he doesn't care about his fans. Most people that have met Trey(whether it was paid for or free) have said he was a very nice person. He loves us and appreciates us. The person you are referring to is correct Trey does need his "true" fans.

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@Prittbrowniiz BestSellerAngel
Maybe he will have a change of heart if he or one of his people reads this.

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@Numba1Hon - Yeah I get that. Like I also said in an earlier response on page 4 or where the comments first began is that we don't know where Trey's head was when he read it. I get all of that. I make haste decisions sometimes in anger as well. It doesn't mean it was the best choice at the time either, but you've made it already. All you can do is possibly rectify it if you realize you've made a mistake or move on. Trey has to power to re-follow or leave it alone. Again his choice.

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@Prittbrowniiz BestSellerAngel
I have the same trouble all the time. Maybe someone has the answer.

Earlier you said"
"#Opinion I do think that was a bit harsh. She didn't send him the DM. She didn't agree with what the girl said. She was just hoping her words would help him see that the girl knew she had made a mistake."

It was harsh. What happens is that when a person is angry, they are not rational so anything is possible. Evidently Trey's button's were pushed. When ones temper is flaring, anyone in the way is susceptible to get caught in the flack if they intercede. It is best to let the person calm down or be prepared to deal with the outcome if you intercede whether you have to or you do not.

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@Numba1Hon - That happens to me all the time when I post stories...idk...it's a pain. I usually have to copy, delete and paste them all over again...smh

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Can someone tell me why my comments are not posted in the right order?

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(Cont'd.)
Angels have to understand that we are not the only ones making Trey a superstar. There are probably more non-Angels at all of his concerts then there are Angels. If it were not for the support of every one of us, he would not be where he is. I am sure there are many fans that are not Angels that are going hard in their own way. For example, some are probably students that can barely afford the cost of transportation and the ticket price but they sacrifice and make it to the show because of love for the artist. Is their devotion any less than our own? How do you measure that? Are you (meaning any reader) sure your own devotion and expectations/demands are not too much? (Rhetorical Question)

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Let me 1st say I am sorry about this misunderstanding and I am glad that you two can forgive Trey.

I think many Trey fans love him so hard they are loving him to death w/o realizing it. I think he gives his fans all that he can and no matter how much he gives many fans are not satisfied or are always demanding or complaining in a negative manner right along with his haters. We have to realize we (Angels) do not own Trey and there is a limit to what we are entitled to (which is a good fantasy) and what he can really give. (The girlfriend in your head is another discussion we had already). He can not give us his whole life and this appears what it will come down to if he tries to meet the demands of all of the fans. Fans have to remember, if you really love someone, you give without expecting in return especially if the person is good to you. Anything more is selfishness.

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(Cont'd)
Everyone including Trey has a right to live, breathe and be happy. I imagine he does not want to be suffocated like this and did not anticipate it, and who wants to have their bubble busted when they are happy and on a high? I understand that fans want to be acknowledged so the most that he could have done was to acknowledge all Angels and thank all of his fans which I am sure he did as usual. Each and every Angel really did not need to be singled out. I can imagine the tweets sent to him from his own Angels, and I imagine it must have been the last straw---the last PERCEIVED insult or demand he could endure before he gave in and reacted. We also have to realize that the truly significant hurt might not even have been those tweets. The tweets could have simply pushed a button he has with people making too many demands on him. We all have these moments and he is a celebrity so he has a lot to endure. MANY celebrities have said they are hurt by the things said, thought and done to them. Being a celebrity does not make you immune. It makes you more of a target. But you still have feelings like everybody else. As a matter of fact a celebrity probably has much higher highs and much lower lows than the general population. The reason for the lower lows is the big drop from the highs. This causes emotional and physiological strain. Also, the industry and its lifestyle make artists more susceptible to a whole lot of negativity including all kinds of pitfalls and traps, etc. so artists may be more fragile than we think. Maybe this means we need to tread lightly and voice our opinions more prudently when dealing with Trey.

Prittbrowniiz BestSellerAngel's picture

The best part about an open forum is everyone is entitled to their own opinion about this. No one's opinion is wrong because it's how you feel. NONE OF US know what made Trey ultimately un-follow @Tricia. That's the question. #Facts We know he did & We know he had a problem with the DM that was sent obviously, since he tweeted it out and put #Entitlement after it and un-followed the sender.

But what was the motivation behind un-following another fan who was just explaining..."she loves him, that we all do and to please give her (the sender) another chance" then you as well get un-followed for that?

#Opinion I do think that was a bit harsh. She didn't send him the DM. She didn't agree with what the girl said. She was just hoping her words would help him see that the girl knew she had made a mistake. It's like a person seeing both sides of a story. That doesn't mean your picking one because you can see the other's point of view. She wasn't taking a side just because she DM'd him to express her empathy for the girl, but I guess he saw it as such.

No one's debating his CHOICE to follow or un-follow people we all know he has that right, which he exercised, but just not everyone agrees with the punishment fitting the act. Which #Entitled we ALL are to our choices, views and opinions. Which none of ours change the fact that she's (Tricia) not being followed anymore and it was his choice to make to do so.

Sis if you feel the need to talk to Trey about it the next time you see him then do it. Why not if you're not holding on to any hard feelings and want to clear the air. I really hope you get the resolve that you're looking for.

Essence711's picture

You know what? I really don't think any artist cares whether the people who support them are true fans or not. At the end of the day, they all just want to be relevant. I love Trey way more than I love NeYo or Big Sean, but after seeing them both on stage, BECAUSE I went to see Trey, I can see myself going to a Big Sean concert, or a NeYo concert. They don't have to get my undying love to get my support. And at the end of the day, they won't even care.
It's different when the artist knows how hard you go for him, and he sees how much you love him. It's okay for him to dismiss you over your opinion?
It doesn't make a person less of a fan if they get upset at something he does. It will just make them question him. If his response to the question is "Get the f*ck out, I don't want to hear it!" Then how deep is HIS love, really?

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I'm just saying, you start cutting off your fans because of their opinions, then who's gonna hold you down when you you start to fall?
Trey is beautiful and wonderful and all that. He has us captivated and yeah, it is what it is. I just think that his backlash stings like hell.
@Tricia I'm sure you didn't say anything that would make him believe you meant him or his family physical harm. I'm sure you didn't even tell him that if he didn't apologize to the girl that he would lose you as a fan. I take his unfollowing you as him saying that he doesn't care how YOU feel for a fellow Angel. He clicked her off, and he clicked you off too, and that's supposed to be the end of discussion.
He didn't know you were going to stay his fan. And now you're going to pay him VIP money just so that you can explain yourself to him. I hope it goes well.
Look, I'm not in your pockets, you probably would have paid for VIP anyway. I'm not knocking you. I'm still his fan. I pay for albums, concerts, merchandise, etc. I drool over his interviews, songs, videos, whatever.
I'm just saying that maybe if he hadn't cut you off from direct contact and he would have waited to hear from you again, he could have gotten what you have to say from that.
As for his busy schedule and all, yeah, he has a life, he deserves to live it to the fullest. So on his down time he's really sifting through his timeline and DM box seething because a fan says something disappointing to him? Yeah he may be sensitive in some ways, but if he unfollows you to me it's like he's saying f*ck you and the horse you rode in on. I don't need your support, I don't need your love.

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Like I said, I don't know what was said in the DM that made him mad. And I do understand he has the right to unfollow whoever he wants, it's his twitter- yeah, all that. I'm just saying that to me it looks like he said "Well f*ck both of y'all. I ain't got sh*t to say to neither one of y'all. And now, y'all can't say sh*t to me."
Remember, Trey's not on twitter sending shout outs everyday, he's not on Ustream often, he's not on that phone line he used to use to send out personal messages. So when he follows a fan on twitter, he is giving them a direct line to him, whether he talks to them or not. Fans DM him hoping that he will respond to them.
No, it doesn't pay their bills, no they won't go jump off a bridge over it, but seriously, I thought he was doing all of that so that he could get to know his fans on a more personal level. So now he does know some on a more personal level, and he decided that he doesn't like what they said, so get the hell off my twitter?
As for the young girl saying all that she said, Trey might have felt like well this little girl is just wildin out, I don't have time for it.
But I wasn't really defending her. She said what she had to say, she did her. I was mainly talking about Tricia's case.
@Tricia, I don't know you personally, that's why I apologized in case I said something that would offend you.
As was mentioned before, Trey did something special for us by doing the tour. Yeah it was a charitable event. Yeah it probably came out of his own pocket, yeah we love him for it. But at the end of the day, he did it to keep his fan base interested. That's my opinion and I'm sticking to it. Trey said so himself that he's always in competition with other artists, whether they're his friends or not.
He may get his recognition from other artists, and he may feel their love, but it's the FANS who keep him at the top. To me, unfollowing a fan is taking it too far, especially since she still wants to be his fan.

MsNeversonSongz ❀◕‿◕❀'s picture

Some of ya'll takin this shyt too far like omg stop makin a big deal out of it trey is a grown ass man he does what he wants ppl behh thinking this too deep he follows and unfollow who he want like what tha girl did she was wrong she should have controlled herself she took time to make tha poster birthday or not trey aint gonna see everything he aint god sheeesh ok she did it she's sorry right she"s not perfect but some of ya'll acting like trey is wrong for what he did or he's mean just like i said leave out him being a celebrity he has feelings just like us too some ppl be talkin straight bullshit like not b|c he's a celebrity we gonna bash him it goes two ways we appreciates him while he appreciates us b|c of this ppl mind be all over tha place like whoever feels like trey dont appreciate u or he's not doin what u expect so be it he cant please everyone one thing i know trey love his fans he never leaves us out and he never forgets where he is coming from but for ppl to act like he aint a normal person aint cool we tend to expect high demands on celebrity at all times and thats kind of pressuring and some of us dont get that if trey unfollowed i would feel bad too but hey what can i do what if for u is for at tha and of tha day no matter what happens and ppl who think negative of trey was not a real fan from day 1 u have to learn to look at things many ways not 1 know alot of ppl bashing trey like wise tha girl but i will always support trey no matter what

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With that in mind, I'm beginning to wonder if he thinks that we are expendable.
Granted, I don't know what was actually said in your DM to him that could have rubbed him the wrong way. And I'm not sure if he knows that the young lady he blasted is as young as she is. What I do know is that he opened the door to us for so much access to him. That's part of what made him stand out from all the rest. If he's going to be getting all personal and up close with us, then he should take us as we are, like he expects us to do.
If a family member says or does something you don't like you may argue, stop speaking for a while, it may even get ugly, but family is family. Trey is always so positive when it comes to family. He said his Angels are like his family. So is that what family deserves? To be disconnected like that?
I'm just confused. And a bit sad - for you as well as for the rest of us. Is Trey changing on us? Or is he just letting his true nature show?
I apologize to you Angels if I'm taking this too far, but I'm really sensitive and I don't want to start looking at Trey in a different light.

Essence711's picture

I still love Trey and I admit that I don't know what his state of mind was when he started unfollowing his fans, but I think that it's hitting below the belt to disconnect from his fans in that way.
Lets be real, and mind you, I still love him, but come on, he has millions of followers and I'm sure that not all of them are not true fans of his. Some people just follow celebs just to be able to say that they do. He probably doesn't even know all of the people he follows. And everyday there could be people out there saying negative things to him and about him, but he probably just shrugs it off because he doesn't know them.
But what about his die hard fans? He KNOWS that most of them go far beyond the call of duty for him. One disagreement and he just cuts them off like that?
He might as well have revoked their Angel status as well.
@Tricia I don't mean to beat this in the hole and I apologize if I offend you in any way. I believe that you are very brave for even sharing this experience with us, and you're strong for letting your love for Trey override your disappointment. I just can't get over the unfollow. He could have just said something back to you and let it be. But like I said before, he knows how special his follow made you feel. Why else would they announce the follows when he does them? You met him and he sees your pic of the two of you together and he KNOWS how precious those moments are.
He just took a precious moment away from you as if you sent him a death threat or something. There are people out there who say harmful things to and about him and does he personally and publicly blast them? He ignores them but he takes it out on his fans. Didn't he call us his family? What, was that all just talk?
There was this one person who used to be on this site saying all kinds of rude stuff to us and about Trey. I used to hate her comments, but now I'm remembering one thing in particular she said. She said that she doesn't need to be a fan of Trey, HE NEEDS HER.

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I think we try our best to encourage him :) @humbleheart

Ms Matara's picture

I do feel both sides of this story and I feel tht there was a lapse of judgement on both sides. Prolly jus caught him during a bad moment.

MsNeversonSongz ❀◕‿◕❀'s picture

@TreySonngzOneLove yhuuuuuuup yhuuuuuup

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@Tricia I understand she spent her hard earned money, but just because she made a poster doesn't mean she should get a s/o! I think us as fans expect too much from Trey. For every action n there is a reaction. So, she sent the message n Trey didnt like the message so therefore he did what he did. Trey is a grown a** man n he did what he wanted to do.

N all though Trey may get hate mail n mail like that all the time,at a cerain point he may have just gotten tired of the b.s. idk what his ration was behind it, bcuz I wasn't there when it happened. Unfortunately her message was the one that he reacted to. Also Trey can follow n unfollow whoever he wants.

I hadn't heard anything about the last show! The only thing I heard was how all those people got on stage. N I don't recall him sayin anything about his Angels when I saw him but it wasn't anything I took offense to. I know I'm one of his Angels n he acknowledges us enough , but that's just me! Lol anywho yeah don't know what was up wit Trey, but he did what he did n I'm pretty sure he knows what he did.

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@Sis

I could imagine that would be overwhelming to see people venting about his last show. A show he put a lot of effort into just to turn around and have some people not too happy. And I can totally understand the feelings of those that felt left out. I just hope they realized it may have slipped his mind to shout out the angels, but I’m sure it was in his heart to do so. Yes by the time he got to her dm it already had mounted up. Trey out all people should be able to get take the criticism, but I know it gets hard for him at times. I hope ya’ll get a chance to repair the situation too.

JesusIsMySavior's picture

@Humbleheart:

I wish he wouldn’t take comments made towards him too personally either, but as many have stated he is only human. He’s a confident young man and that should be what drives him. However, I know he likes/loves external encouragement as well. I know Trey gets the negativity thrown at him on a daily basis especially on these social networks. I agree our self worth shouldn’t be determine by others.

MsNeversonSongz ❀◕‿◕❀'s picture

At tha end of tha day wether he is a celebrity or not trey has feelings too tha comment she made about wishing tha plane had crash what if it actually happened?? think about that we fans gotta control out selves just like trey if tha man is hurt he's hurt not b|c he's a celebrity he has feelings like us blood run through him as well he may unfollow a few and it hurts them but hey can u realli blame him? i can say trey has such a strong effect on some of Lives and he's such a big part of our life and at times i don't think hes knows tha fans will go to tha extreme for him alot of us may say he didnt handle tha situation right but what if we was in his position we will say anything b|c were not tha one it happened to and don't me wrong again im sayin how i feel not taking sides a mean we don't know how many times fans have bashed mean comments at him he may have been having a bad day too ? yea we can look at it a million ways think of ifs but do"s and dont but as i said he's human just like us leave out him being a celebrity

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@TreyzOneLove I definitely agree that it shouldn't have been sent, but I think the young lady really didn't think it over. Expressions can be interpreted completely different than how it was intended. She was kind of pouting about it...not angry about not being noticed. It seems as though he took it as an angry message. I know that Trey can't acknowledge everything and she actually knows that too...it was just a momentary lapse of judgment.

You also mentioned the fact that Trey felt unappreciated after he decided to tour off a mixtape for his fans. I love Trey but anytime you got 10s & thousands of fans filling up stadiums to see you...obviously you are appreciated. I don't buy that as a good reason for him to do that...I can't even imagine him thinking that. If that was his rationality...he completely missed the bigger picture. Yes he toured on a mixtape but it wasn't free. The girl was in the audience at the concert. She spent her hard earned money to see you, and she took the time to make a poster...obviously she loves you. I did VIP so I definitely appreciate him. I won't know what Trey's rationality behind it until I speak to him about it so I won't focus too much on that. I just thought it was odd and like I said, just hurtful.

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