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  • They say it's better to have loved & lost than to never have loved at all. Question..Would you rather have had the chance to love Trey and lost him for whatever reason OR not have had the chance, but always living with the hope to have a chance? and hope doesn't mean you'll ever have the chance. It's like a wish that may or maynot come true.

     I hope that doesn't sound confusing...lol

    PritTbrowniiz AKA/BestSellerAngel

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on April 15, 2011 - 1:02pm
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They say it's better to have loved & lost than to never have loved at all. Question..Would you rather have had the chance to love Trey and lost him for whatever reason OR not have had the chance, but always living with the hope to have a chance? and hope doesn't mean you'll ever have the chance. It's like a wish that may or maynot come true.

 I hope that doesn't sound confusing...lol

PritTbrowniiz AKA/BestSellerAngel

lisaleigh30's picture

@ pritTbrowniiz. Fell you on that!

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Even though my "fantasy thoughts" think he'd make a great boyfriend, I'd have to pass on the relationship. I see him as a distant crush, and like CutTGurl609 said he can't mess that up. Plus I don't think I could deal with a long distance relationship. It is a nice thought, though.

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@Treyzonelove - LOL!!! I feel you girl on giving it a try. I believe everything happens for a reason too. I hope God has a good reason why I haven't had the opportunity to meet him yet! lol

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Im a hopeless romantic so I say it is better to have had a chance to love and know Tremaine then not at all! I take every experience in life as a lesson, whether it be good or bad! I agree with u pritTbrowniiz with the missing what uve never had but always wanted! I want to be with someone who I can romance and get the same in return! It could be with Trey or sumbody else but u never know until u try.

If that opportunity presented itself, u damn right I would go on and give it a try! Lol U never know what could be and seein him on tv and things like that would probably make me think about all the good times and maybe the bad ones that we shared together. Love feels so good but how can u expect sumthin that feels so good not to hurt so bad?

And if we were in a relationship and it ended, good or bad, I take it and move on no hard feelings because I believe everything happens for a reason!

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@lisaleigh30 - I get what you're saying about the "old saying", but I feel like you can miss what you never had. You can also want for what you never had. For example I never had the type of romance that I would've liked to have had in past relationships, but I still want for it. It is still missed even though I never had it. It's missed because I never had it. Some ppl want for real love because it's something that they've never had. I think it can be missed to a certain degree. Just my thoughts, but I do totally get what your saying as far a Trey. I wouldn't go seeking for it either.

@ CutTGurl609 - I feel you on that about the dream. I like how you said "he can't mess it up for me right now" I totally agree.

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That old saying is a bunch of bull. It is much betta to have neva love at all. You can't miss what you neva had. But I only want to see if the rumors are true with him. But if he wanted something more I wouldn't say no but as for as me seeking that, I'll pass.

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I'm fine with the dream because he can't mess it up for me right now. I don't know him personally but I've come up with my own thoughts of how he is and I wanna keep it that way. On the other hand if the option for us to pursue a relationship came up I would do it cause I don't like to live in fear of what could go wrong. I like to live and learn but of course I'll evaluate the situation just like I do with anybody I pursue a relationship with.

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For me I think I would at least be happy that I had the chance because at least I know I gave it my all to try to make it work. I think the hardest part would be seeing him on tv, videos, interviews etc. and knowing that he's no longer mine. Then again, I may not want the chance because dealing with the aftermath of having someone like him in my life I'd probably be better off with the hope. lol...I'm so confused.

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