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    (2 years 10 months ago)

    For a long time I wonder what was love and if it was really real. Besides receiving it from my family I have never knew what it was or if it was ever really real. And to tell you the truth I don't even know if what me and my family call love is love for one another. Not saying that my family don't love me but because I never really know what it was I could never say it back. I dated a guy for four years and could not tell him I love you because I just didn't feel it was love i was feeling for him. I knew I cared about him but I didn't think it was love and I tried to be real with him and tell him the truth which made him not one to be around me. which i understood at the time because he told me he loved me and i could not say it back but to come back to me after having sex with my best friend little cousin really hurt me because he told me he love me and to have to hear that information from my best friend and not him hurt even more. And of course he wanted to get together and talk about it, you know tell me how sorry he was and even that he love me and never really tried to hurt me  but i just felt like that was not true. I just felt like how can you tell me you love me but can't tell you had sex with someone else if you love me. Maybe it just me but i just feel the person that I will tell I love you to should be someone that I can be real with. You know be myself around at all time and never feel like I am making a fool of myself around when i do something stupid because he care about me and knows my heart. Someone who would never hurt me on purpose but would try everything in his power to keep me away from anything that could hurt me. I mean is that to much to ask for.but what really made me want to find true love is the fact that i love myself enough to know that in order to love someone you have to love yourself first because that is the only way to have a good health relationship with someone because if you can't love yourself how are you suppose to be opened to love someone else or even be able to tell someone else you love them. So i guess love to me means being able to be real with each other. SO I GUESS MY QUESTION TO ALL OF YOU IS WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN TO YOU?

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Lanique213's picture
on May 30, 2011 - 11:55pm
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For a long time I wonder what was love and if it was really real. Besides receiving it from my family I have never knew what it was or if it was ever really real. And to tell you the truth I don't even know if what me and my family call love is love for one another. Not saying that my family don't love me but because I never really know what it was I could never say it back. I dated a guy for four years and could not tell him I love you because I just didn't feel it was love i was feeling for him. I knew I cared about him but I didn't think it was love and I tried to be real with him and tell him the truth which made him not one to be around me. which i understood at the time because he told me he loved me and i could not say it back but to come back to me after having sex with my best friend little cousin really hurt me because he told me he love me and to have to hear that information from my best friend and not him hurt even more. And of course he wanted to get together and talk about it, you know tell me how sorry he was and even that he love me and never really tried to hurt me  but i just felt like that was not true. I just felt like how can you tell me you love me but can't tell you had sex with someone else if you love me. Maybe it just me but i just feel the person that I will tell I love you to should be someone that I can be real with. You know be myself around at all time and never feel like I am making a fool of myself around when i do something stupid because he care about me and knows my heart. Someone who would never hurt me on purpose but would try everything in his power to keep me away from anything that could hurt me. I mean is that to much to ask for.but what really made me want to find true love is the fact that i love myself enough to know that in order to love someone you have to love yourself first because that is the only way to have a good health relationship with someone because if you can't love yourself how are you suppose to be opened to love someone else or even be able to tell someone else you love them. So i guess love to me means being able to be real with each other. SO I GUESS MY QUESTION TO ALL OF YOU IS WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN TO YOU?

CutTiGurl609's picture

Good question. I think love is caring for someone unconditionally. Seems pretty simple but it can mean so many different things. Whether its someone your in an intimate relationship with, a friendship, family member, God, yourself or even someone you don't know; truly caring for them, to me, is love.

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