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    REPLY TO ANGEL ABUSE

     

    @ Tricia.AKA @GimmeUnusual.  I felt bad from the putdown of Trey ‘s video and what you said about the model was a slap in my face when I was there trying to defend Trey against Sshorty. . I am tall, used to be very thin and did some modeling and  I had a negative self image (NSI).  I have tall and thin  model like relatives and I am trying like crazy for prevent them from having the NSI problem.  I have one relative that developed diabetes after trying to get PHAT. I have had several friends with similar problems. The comments were not nice.  The same way people get negative messages from television, magazines and newspapers, they receive them on a  website.  I was also highly offended by the putdown of the video.  I expect to see Trey putdowns on MediaTakeout, but seeing it on his website is hurtful  There is a DIFFERENCE between a putdown and constructive criticism. .This whole experience is making me wonder if Trey is allowing this so we can argue and he can get paid and does he really care about his Fans.  All I want is a pleasant experience and people to respect others.  I paid my dues (by supporting him every day) and my fees and I think the fans have a right to that.  I am a rebellious fighter and my purpose was  to show the fans that you should not tolerate the  putdowns from any fan and there are no excuses.   Whether you are joking or not it all come out to hate on the internet.   The internet does not have a face or a person.  We can only see the words in the front of us.  I see hate as plain as day from you and Shorty even though you say that was not your intention.  I cannot see your heart on the internet.  All I know is the anger that I feel as a result of the putdowns.  Such comments  are usually said privately unless the person is IDGF serious.  Both you and Shorty were making some very negative comments and this whole conflict resulted from that.  Evidently the board has been allowing this.  So I think everyone on the board is guilty not just me. I  have been a huge supporter of Trey since early 2006. I was on the old website and on TSMB. I visited the forum regularly but did not post.  I hung out on his MySpace back then and read fan fiction.  I always buy 10 copies of each album and then buy digital copies of music and videos including all the collabos on I-tunes  I promote his music among my friends and relatives. and vote on 106& Park everyday and vote on other contests.  I tape all the TV programs.. I have long play lists going way back on YouTube including interviews.  I have been to a few concerts including OMG. and I read the blogs and I leave positive comments and contradict the haters.  I play  his music on I-tunes and Zune.  I  have e-mailed and called radio stations.  I have made new Trey Songz fans.  I even wrote a fan fiction short story..  As for your Fan Fiction business, I don’t really wish anybody failure in what they do. I said those things for effect.  I got real pissed off because you were trying to be important when I was trying to get a point across.  I am a person that is always befriending and helping the underdog and fighting for what is right.  I am still not convinced  you understand why  your comments are hurtful to me.  I thought JIMS  should have said something more direct earlier on.  I think people are now just becoming aware there is a problem here and something needs to be done about it.   You could see  how  unhappy fans were in the beginning of that post.  

     

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on April 12, 2011 - 12:14pm
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REPLY TO ANGEL ABUSE

 

@ Tricia.AKA @GimmeUnusual.  I felt bad from the putdown of Trey ‘s video and what you said about the model was a slap in my face when I was there trying to defend Trey against Sshorty. . I am tall, used to be very thin and did some modeling and  I had a negative self image (NSI).  I have tall and thin  model like relatives and I am trying like crazy for prevent them from having the NSI problem.  I have one relative that developed diabetes after trying to get PHAT. I have had several friends with similar problems. The comments were not nice.  The same way people get negative messages from television, magazines and newspapers, they receive them on a  website.  I was also highly offended by the putdown of the video.  I expect to see Trey putdowns on MediaTakeout, but seeing it on his website is hurtful  There is a DIFFERENCE between a putdown and constructive criticism. .This whole experience is making me wonder if Trey is allowing this so we can argue and he can get paid and does he really care about his Fans.  All I want is a pleasant experience and people to respect others.  I paid my dues (by supporting him every day) and my fees and I think the fans have a right to that.  I am a rebellious fighter and my purpose was  to show the fans that you should not tolerate the  putdowns from any fan and there are no excuses.   Whether you are joking or not it all come out to hate on the internet.   The internet does not have a face or a person.  We can only see the words in the front of us.  I see hate as plain as day from you and Shorty even though you say that was not your intention.  I cannot see your heart on the internet.  All I know is the anger that I feel as a result of the putdowns.  Such comments  are usually said privately unless the person is IDGF serious.  Both you and Shorty were making some very negative comments and this whole conflict resulted from that.  Evidently the board has been allowing this.  So I think everyone on the board is guilty not just me. I  have been a huge supporter of Trey since early 2006. I was on the old website and on TSMB. I visited the forum regularly but did not post.  I hung out on his MySpace back then and read fan fiction.  I always buy 10 copies of each album and then buy digital copies of music and videos including all the collabos on I-tunes  I promote his music among my friends and relatives. and vote on 106& Park everyday and vote on other contests.  I tape all the TV programs.. I have long play lists going way back on YouTube including interviews.  I have been to a few concerts including OMG. and I read the blogs and I leave positive comments and contradict the haters.  I play  his music on I-tunes and Zune.  I  have e-mailed and called radio stations.  I have made new Trey Songz fans.  I even wrote a fan fiction short story..  As for your Fan Fiction business, I don’t really wish anybody failure in what they do. I said those things for effect.  I got real pissed off because you were trying to be important when I was trying to get a point across.  I am a person that is always befriending and helping the underdog and fighting for what is right.  I am still not convinced  you understand why  your comments are hurtful to me.  I thought JIMS  should have said something more direct earlier on.  I think people are now just becoming aware there is a problem here and something needs to be done about it.   You could see  how  unhappy fans were in the beginning of that post.  

 

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TREYZONELOVE_2's picture

@numba1hun I know that u were upset, but this is an open forum for anyone to come on here n state their opinions. I dont care for Sshorty to much but I had to learn to ignore her because people will say what they want. Im glad that u n gimmeusual can move past this, but she isnt the first n wont be the last to state their opinion on this site. When I come across sumthing negative, especially towards Trey I state my opinion n keep it moving.

Im happy for u that u were able to overcome ur struggle! But dont let sumone u dont know n who doesnt know u, upset u like that! If u come across a discussion or comment u dont like u can comment or not n keep it moving. Bcuz at the end of the day what sumone, who doesnt know u, says shouldnt make u or break u!

I try to love all Trey fam n Angels but they can make it difficult but I love them anyway, but at a distance! Lol

Keep ur head up n never let anyone, especially sumone who is of no relevance to u, make u that upset!

Angel XOXO's

TreysQuietAngel's picture

@Numbs1Hon... I'm sorry to read that you went though NSI! I get a sense that you aren't a negative minded person; just a point maker. It takes courage to squash something that could have been prevented in the first place. I pray and hope that you and Trisha both have a good understanding of how the other feels and let what has happened between the two of you rest. Be blessed! :)

JesusIsMySavior's picture

Exactly!@Ros

ros's picture

JUS ANOTHER BAD MISUNDERSTANDING BETWEEN TREY FANS.......WITH ALL THT HAS BEEN SAID OVER THE PAST FEW DAYS ALL SHOULD BE WELL AND APOLOGIZES SHOULD BE ACCEPTED!!!!!!!!!!! TREY "WHERE YOU AT"

JesusIsMySavior's picture

Numba1Hon: I’m truly saddened that you went through NSI. From what I am gathering you took Tricia comments about the model as a personal attack towards you and I’m sorry about that. It’s obvious by your username that you have gained a lot confidence in who you are as a person not allowing anyone to make you feel like you are less than anyone else and that is a beautiful thing. I’m happy that you are an advocate for the betterment of women especially black women. Keep spreading your positive words of encouragement for our sisters.

I seriously doubt Trey likes or condones any kind of bickering between his fans. And I doubt we want it either. You are a strong supporter of Trey and so is Tricia. It makes me happy to know you don’t wish anyone failure. I don’t think we need moderators we can be our own moderators. When we feel like someone’s comments are going to take us to a place we don’t like take a step back and analysis the situation before we respond.

Also I apologize for not speaking up earlier, but I had to take some time to regroup so I could say my peace in the most effective way possible. I get a sense that you want this back and forth business to end and I truly hope and pray it does.

Ariel @COOGIdown's picture

That, my friends.... is a fan of Trey!

kg.sunshine's picture

I think that now that you both have had your sayso, it all should be squashed. It's dead. Lesson learned and everyone should be more respectful in how they voice their opinions.

lisaleigh30's picture

I still believe only Tremaine Aldon Neverson has the authority to decide whether anyone should not be on the site. SShorty doesn't like people making personal desicions of Tremaine based on his Trey Songz's image and she always presented herself that way, know for certain S Shorty will not hide her personality, so despite her debative blogs; I can guarantee, she's either going to agree or disagree not the other way around. But thanks for the explaination. I hope others read and understand.

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