What caused me PAIN was being in a abusive relationship for 5years. I know people always say "if he is abusive then you should leave" but its easier said than done. I was young and I thought I was in love and eventhough he didn't physically hit, he abused me in other ways. When I finally got out of that relationship, it was the happiest moment of the life b/c I over came that
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