The pain of Twitter's @Onlymetoeverbe and @Treysongz_MI

I tried my hardest to keep my daughter and her father with me, as a family. I dealt with domestic violence and infidelity by her father, and after one terrible event, police were called, and the courts were heavily involved. He hadn't been there for a year and a half of her life, hadn't even tried. About a year after that, he begged me to give him visitation rights. After approving court-ordered visitation, my daughter became a hostage, to force me into doing what he wanted me to. Every time she leaves for court-ordered visitation, she begs me not to let him take her. She is constantly being punished for my shortcomings. I don't have a license or vehicle to travel across states to pick her up when he takes her, and it's very difficult for me to find others willing to put 500 miles on their car. She cries for me all day, every day I'm not there, and it pains me to see that she is being punished because I allowed myself to be manipulated, and I don't have a legal way to fix it.