This is my pain. After a long relationship and a daughter who is almost 2, I have to break apart my family. Things have never been perfect, but I have fought to no end to make things work. There are no fidelity issues or anything of that sort. The issue is chemistry. I lost it. Fight after fight; I just cannot respect who he is anymore. From not caring about our daughter to just pure selfishness; I need to let go. We have tried counselling, but how do you repair FEELINGS? We have only been broken up for about 48 hours now, but I am hanging in there. I already feel a relief; I am happy. At the age of 21, I haven't been single since I was 15; so I don't really know what is on the other side for me, but I will go trudging along.