So, I know a lot of ya'll read my discussion that i put up here a few weeks ago about the beautifully me event that I wanted to do. I had been racking my brain, trying to figure out exactly how I was gonna do this, and I think i've finally figured something out. I'd love to do a siminar type program for young girls from ages 13-18 that focus on these topics:
Sex: When to know if you're ready, how to say no, and feel secure with your decision, how not to feel pressured.
Physical appearence: How to love what you see when you look at you.
The difference between Sex and Love: ANd there is a BIG difference.
Self Respect: How to demand it, and keep it.
Abuse:Physically or Mentally. Both are WRONG, and you need to know how to deal with it if the issue ever presents itself in your relationship, which often times, it does.
Boys: How to deal with your feelings about them. How to know if they like you. How to know if they want you to leave them alone. How not to chase after a guy. How to know your worth to let them chase after you.
Teen Pregnancy: How to prevent, and if not possible, how to know that you can still make it even with a child.
I want this siminar to be as real as possible, not just the typical every girl is beautiful. Every girl is beautiful, and that's the point that i'm trying to get across, but I wanna go deep in and focus on these topics because I feel that these are our biggest issues that our young girls face today. I want this thing to go down around the Holiday Season, because I want it to tie in to Christmas. I also want every girl that comes to leave with something really nice as a gift because of the holiday season, so i'm also trying to put together some type of fundraiser for this. I just want this day to be a day that everybody that comes leaves with something to think about. If anyone has anything to add, or is still interested in helping, let me know, I need all the help i can get.